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[-] soupguy@lemmy.world 125 points 1 month ago
[-] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Cops (1989) ruined america, taught us to trust these ass holes and they royally fucked us over.

Not making light of everything before 1989, but even after all that shit, the show painted them in a decent enough light to where people spill their guts and trust them, just because they have a uniform and they took full advantage of us.

[-] ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 23 points 1 month ago

Police propaganda goes way back before Cops (1989). Dragnet started in 1951 and inspired dozens of police procedurals that made cops look like street smart scientists who studied at the intersection of crime and humanity. In reality they are just a disappointment. ACAB

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[-] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 107 points 1 month ago

Airbnb. I used to think they were a perfect business. Saw a gap in the market, created a decent product, invested in their users (back in the day they would even send a photographer to take good photos of your property).
Unfortunately the consequences turned out to be awful.

[-] reddig33@lemmy.world 43 points 1 month ago

AirBNB would work better if the owner was required to live in the property 160 days out of the year. Where it went wrong was in letting corporations buy up housing and use it to skirt hotel taxes and regulation.

[-] meep_launcher@lemm.ee 34 points 1 month ago

🌈.°`E N S H I T I F I C A T I O N'°. 🌈

[-] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Yeah, I'm pretty torn. In my small community (on an island), housing and rent are insanely expensive, and also pretty scarce. There are people who have full time jobs living in tents in the woods or in their cars (in Alaska) not because they can't afford a place to stay, but because there are no places to rent.

It's also a major tourist spot, and the population more than doubles regularly on days during the summer, and for those that fly in, the hotels book up quick. So there's a huge AirBnB market. Which means houses are getting bought up and then set up as AirBnBs instead of renting to residents, so housing becomes even more scarce. So I hate AirBnB.

But.... I just bought a 4 bedroom house, where one of the beds is in a built in 1-bedroom apartment, with its own kitchen and everything. We wanted a 4bedroom house so we could have a guest room for people visiting, as well as just have extra space for us. Well, once I retire, one of our plans is to rent that out as an AirBnB during the times we don't have guests staying. It doesn't deplete housing in the area (we wouldn't be renting it out anyway), and it helps pay our ridiculous mortgage.

So I hate it... but if it's used properly/ethically, I feel like it could be pretty good.

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[-] Deflated0ne@lemmy.world 99 points 1 month ago

Institutions. Courts. Media. Religion. Law Enforcement. Politicians.

The institutions are captured. The courts, media, and politicians are corrupt. Bought and paid for. Law Enforcement are just class traitors. The enforcement arm of Capital. Protecting the interests of the ruling class and taking a bludgeon to the people. Religion is a tool of control. Used to control the ignorant and guide their ire.

[-] meep_launcher@lemm.ee 17 points 1 month ago

Idk I'm starting to think dystopia began when we figured out agriculture

[-] Sixtyforce@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago

Most life eats other life to live. It's been a bad time from the very beginning.

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[-] MudMan@fedia.io 6 points 1 month ago

Ironically this take is entirely self-validating, since this is the primary mechanism for that degradation.

[-] rothaine@lemm.ee 81 points 1 month ago

Jk Rowling. She was (I think) the only billionaire to ever debillonaire themselves without dying (i.e., she donated so much wealth to charity that she was no longer a billionaire).

But then she decided to dedicate herself to making trans people's lives miserable...

[-] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago

I'm curious which charities she was donating to before she turned into a massive cunt. Cause all she donates to now are hate groups.

[-] rothaine@lemm.ee 11 points 1 month ago

Good question, I never actually looked into it. According to her Wikipedia page:

She established the Volant Charitable Trust in 2000, and co-founded the charity Lumos in 2005. Rowling's philanthropy centres on medical causes and supporting at-risk women and children. In 2025, Forbes estimated that Rowling's charitable giving exceeded US$200 million. She has also donated to Britain's Labour Party, and opposed Scottish independence and Brexit.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._K._Rowling

[-] OldChicoAle@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

Can she just die already? I normally don't wish death on anyone. Just people that do extremely evil things.

[-] Ioughttamow@fedia.io 65 points 1 month ago

Many moons ago I thought Israel was just defending itself. For two decades now I’ve come to believe they are the problem, and are now committing wanton genocide

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[-] atro_city@fedia.io 55 points 1 month ago

The US. Believed in the "American Dream", but the more I learned about the country, the more I grew to dislike it. It's all a facade.

And I used to have a lot of respect for old people, but that also changed. They are just as flawed as the rest of us.

[-] rbamgnxl5@lemm.ee 28 points 1 month ago

Old people who are assholes were probably always assholes. They were once young assholes and got older. Conversely, old people who are good, were probably good people when they were younger, they just got old.

Most people don't stray far from their roots. Few are those who make a meaningful change. Some choose goodness as a goal, some get their asses kicked by life and turn bitter.

I guess the lesson is don't be an asshole. if you are one, work toward being less of one until you aren't one anymore. Try not to let life get you down. If all else fails, drugs.

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[-] Fletcher@lemmy.today 54 points 1 month ago

I would have to say organized religion. I grew up in a pretty strict christian home, but as I grew older I began to see how much of what I had been told was just patently false and designed to manipulate and control. I have done a lot (decades worth) of studying and reading and I'm confident that the conclusions I have arrived at are correct. Of course, your mileage may vary.

[-] MudMan@fedia.io 45 points 1 month ago

The Internet. Social media in particular.

I used to be a "information wants to be free" pure techno-optimist who thought the availability of data at all times would immediately cause a massive boost in awareness, education and intelligence worldwide.

I was super wrong. It was all a mistake and it should be burnt to the ground. Yes, including this place.

[-] tehmics@lemmy.world 19 points 1 month ago

I mean, in a lot of ways the social media takeover is the antithesis to freedom of information. It's all siloed off echo chambers where it used to be free flowing, publicly available, indexable and searchable.

I still believe in the freedom of information goal more than ever, but fighting for it in the post information era is increasingly difficult (and important)

[-] hansolo@lemm.ee 15 points 1 month ago

It's the Web 2.0 model of corralling people into walled garden platforms, where they're driven insane. One day people will look back at this time and wonder what we were thinking.

[-] Sixtyforce@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago

I was having good time until Smartphones got invented. Letting the masses (morons) get access to instant communication effortlessly and cheap fucked us.

[-] bonn2@lemmy.zip 42 points 1 month ago

A certain elongated muskrat comes to mind. I love space so the thought of a reusable rocket to make space affordable was awesome. I also believe that electric cars are the future, and tesla did make pretty good charging standard and help to "prove" the concept. But now I just hope he somehow winds up dirt poor, and irrelevant. Just oh, my, god

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[-] TrippyHippyDan@lemmy.world 41 points 1 month ago

The video game industry. (Indie games are on fire lately, though.)

[-] tehmics@lemmy.world 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

AA is where it's at now. There's still insanely good games coming out, there just not by companies like EA and Activision anymore.

In some ways I think the good development studios are the same size they've always been, it's just that a new class of mainstream games has risen to profit on the masses. If you ignore those, it's not so bad. At least not until one of the AAA publishers gets their hands on them to ruin the IP and layoff the original devs

[-] TrippyHippyDan@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

A lot of AA studios have been cramming in a ton of microtransactions still, whereas indie is mostly devoid of it, but it definitely gets a lot better the more A's you remove.

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[-] Asfalttikyntaja@sopuli.xyz 39 points 1 month ago
[-] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 6 points 1 month ago
[-] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

A butterfly complaining about change is low key really funny

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[-] Oaksey@lemmy.world 38 points 1 month ago

Google. Do no evil

[-] zlatiah@lemmy.world 33 points 1 month ago

The worshipping of the self-made man and entrepreneurship in popular American culture

I think I was just too young and fashionable, maybe I was one of those guys that saw themselves as a "temporarily embarrassed billionaire"... then got old enough to see through the nonsense

[-] TinyLittlePuni@lemmy.world 32 points 1 month ago

Google. It was once a good search engine. Now I find myself getting only the most irrelevant results based on my keywords and more often than not an advanced search turns up nothing of value

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[-] Lumisal@lemmy.world 30 points 1 month ago

Nintendo.

Things got worse once Bowser got ahold of the American castle.

The fun dissolved with Iwata and Reggie gone.

The line to far for me was their retroactive bs patents used to attack Palworld. It's one thing to be strict on your own systems, but another to do it to others. 80s Nintendo is back and possibly worse than before.

[-] TonyOstrich@lemmy.world 18 points 1 month ago

It wasn't Bowser, it was the finance guys that were placed at the head of the company after Satoru Iwata's death.

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[-] AA5B@lemmy.world 25 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Republicans. When I was a child, slogans like “fiscally responsible”, “family values”, “smaller government “ sounded like good things. Republicans always claimed the moral high ground. But they’ve spent my entire adult life proving it as manipulative bullshit for personal greed and power, holding themselves above the law, the worst in humanity, rising to our current flirt with fascism.

[-] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 23 points 1 month ago

Christianity and the Democratic Party.

[-] Ideonek@lemm.ee 22 points 1 month ago

Neil Gaiman. He poisoned so much...

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[-] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 month ago

Elon. Turns out he was always a conman and liar.

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[-] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 20 points 1 month ago
[-] UngratefulLilToad@feddit.org 20 points 1 month ago

In the past I liked how easy it is when one company offer products to basically everything (i.e. Google), but now that I see the consequences, I'm somewhat disturbed.

[-] josefo@leminal.space 17 points 1 month ago

vaguely gesturing at everything

[-] neukenindekeuken@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 month ago

America.

And my dad.

[-] bmpvy@feddit.org 13 points 1 month ago
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[-] Tramort@programming.dev 13 points 1 month ago
[-] Allonzee@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Western psychology, and I say this as a former psychologist.

Like so much else, any potential at being a science was bastardized long ago in order to make it an industry focused on getting people productive again instead of focusing on their wellbeing which usually has an inverse relationship to getting them back to work in the short and medium term.

Meanwhile the small population of people that can afford actual psychoanalytic therapy that isn't throwing pills at them and teaching them coping strategies within 3 covered sessions tend to be the reason so many others are miserable.

For the non-wealthy, mental healthcare in the US is a complete and utter scam that is geared to serve others at your expense and shoehorn you right back into the stressors that got you into therapy. If you need help, you're out of luck.

[-] FundMECFSResearch 7 points 1 month ago
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[-] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 month ago

Capitalism.

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