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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by lol_idk@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

Inb4 I don't

I'm not asking if you do it, I'm asking people how you do it

Edit: sorry I forgot I posted this and came back to a bunch of answers. I have a torn something in my shoulder that no MRI has been able to find for 20 years so I can't just reach it. I myself use a long cloth, but I don't really like it so I was curious what other people did.

Also, I don't wash my back every shower, but I do get pretty sweaty sometimes and feel like I just have to

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[-] warbond@lemmy.world 88 points 1 week ago

Reach as far as I can, use trickle-down soapenomics to take care of the rest.

[-] kruhmaster@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago

Part of your back isn't scrubbed.

[-] mienshao@lemm.ee 39 points 1 week ago
[-] GJdan@programming.dev 4 points 1 week ago

Eventually, yes.

[-] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Works for me. Nobody screamed at me for smelling at this spot yet.

[-] kaeurenne@lemmy.kadaikupi.space 35 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I use my hands to wash my back. You?

[-] Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 week ago

Same - I can reach all parts. If I couldn’t, I’d grab a something on a stick.

[-] Sibbo@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 week ago

Same here. Guess OP is not that flexible.

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago

I dunno. I used to be flexible as hell, but was also too damn broad across the shoulders to get everywhere. That was even before I started lifting seriously; lifting just made the area I couldn't reach bigger.

Somewhere around 16 I hit a spurt and suddenly couldn't reach a zone between my shoulder blades. It was maybe hand sized. In my twenties, it was about an inch or two bigger, but I could still do all the stretches fully before lifting, and that included shoulder stretches where I could end up almost flat with my arms behind me.

Nowadays, I'm just old and stiff, and can't scrub anything right on my back.

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[-] lol_idk@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago
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[-] d41@startrek.website 19 points 1 week ago

I use a scrubbing brush with a long handle.

[-] MadMadBunny@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago

I don’t. The mind-controlling alien parasite attached to my spine doesn’t let me when I try reaching for it…

[-] 7empest@beehaw.org 1 points 1 week ago

Hi Londo. Hows Centauri Prime these days?

[-] CaptDust@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 week ago
[-] judgyweevil@feddit.it 11 points 1 week ago
[-] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 week ago

Might be a regional thing. Where I'm from, that is indeed a loofah. Synthetic, yes, but still called a loofah.

[-] judgyweevil@feddit.it 7 points 1 week ago

I bet that the number of people that think this is biodegradable because it's a loofah is > 0

[-] CaptDust@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I can't explain the marketing, they call all these things loofahs. Just a normal sponge at the end of mine lol. Mostly just get something on a stick and enjoy the same smug cleanliness.

[-] Tippon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago

Get a fairly stiff brush, it feels really good, like scratching an itch that you couldn't reach :)

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[-] scytale@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 week ago

A belt-like loofa that you hold on both ends and pull from side to side.

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[-] selkiesidhe@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago

Bend the arm the ouchholyfuckalmostreach way. Scrub. Then bend the arm the owfuckalmostjesuschrist way. Scrub again. Easy!

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[-] Nemo@midwest.social 8 points 1 week ago

I just reach back there. I have these crazy things on my arm called "elbows".

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[-] orgrinrt@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I’m surprised how few answers actually include actually practical and helpful tools such as a bathing brush with a good long grip to reach just about everywhere. Is this a cultural thing? I swear I’ve seen them in British tv series at the very least, so I know for sure these are a common thing at least in the Nordics and the UK.

But I mean it’s the best. Really gets the old dead skin cells and other stuff off, and the blood flowing. The bristles are a bit rough, but that just makes it that much more pleasurable, you really feel it!

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These things, surely they are mostly everywhere?

[-] beastlykings@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

My wife has one, I don't like to use it, it's too aggressive for me.

I can reach my back with my arms. To get the spot right between my shoulders I have to reach up and come down from the top with one arm, while using my other hand to grab my elbow and pull it to push my hand low enough to get it more effectively.

[-] xylol@leminal.space 7 points 1 week ago

Right hand goes high, left hand goes low, then you criss cross apple sauce

[-] morphballganon@mtgzone.com 7 points 1 week ago

My hands.

I suspect at some point I'll switch to a brush with a handle.

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago

I got a prehensile penis.

[-] galoisghost@aussie.zone 7 points 1 week ago

Lather up my partners front and get them to slide up and down on my back. Then it’s my turn!

[-] JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago

I have a small hammer I use, to lightly chip away at the wall tiles to provide both exfoliation, a back scratcher, and acupuncture all in one.

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago

Big ol' brush.

I also have long scrubby things. Don't know what they're made of, but I think nylon. Basically really long washcloths with a rough texture and strings to hold onto while scrubbing. But the brush does a better job, so I usually only use the cloth ones when I'm away from home because they pack easier.

That's assuming I can't con my wife into getting soaked just to stand there scrubbing me down for a half hour while I continually say "yah, right there, a little harder. Now to the left, oh yeah, that's great, a little more. Now up some, fucking perfect, you're awesome. Now down a little again" and so on until she throws the scrubber at me.

[-] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago

I mean, I assume the water running down my body when I shower is good enough? Can't imagine my back of all places getting so dirty that I need to scrub it.

[-] ChocoboEnthusiast@leminal.space 5 points 1 week ago

Set the showerhead to "Power Blast" and hope and pray.

[-] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

Some arms flexibility would come a long way.

[-] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 5 points 1 week ago

Like the rest of my body, I use a loofah. I have enough mobility to get to my entire back from one arm.

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

I get my partner to do it for me!

[-] megane_kun@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I try to reach from different directions:

  • upper left (using my left hand)
  • upper right (using my right hand)
  • lower left (using my left hand)
  • and lower right (using my right hand).

For the regions I missed, I have a soapy mesh/loofah thing held by some kind of rope on both ends and with both hands, I use it to reach the unreachable areas:

  • left hand upper and right hand lower, loofah going diagonally (like this: \)
  • right hand upper and left hand lower, loofah going diagonally (like this: /)
  • both hands lower, loofah going horizontal (like this: )

I suppose that should be enough, but I only do that once a week. For the rest of the week, I just reach as far as I can and let the soapy water do what it can.

[-] Crabhands@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

Japanese exfoliating wash cloth

[-] beirdobaggins@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Only the Salux brand though. I've gotten knock off ones that were way too smooth.

[-] Maeve@kbin.earth 3 points 1 week ago

Soap the washcloth, hold opposite corners diagonally for what I can't reach, occasionally use a brush for extra measure.

[-] Aradia@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

I always wash my back very happily and with a good amount of water.

[-] xzot746@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

With someone else's front?

[-] kayzeekayzee 3 points 1 week ago

My back doesn't get dirty

[-] wioum@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago
[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I rub my bar of soap on it and then wash it off. Do you not?

[-] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 1 week ago

With a shower just get what I can and hope the spray and soap gets whats left good enough. Sometimes will use a wash rag and I can just barely grasp the corners and get it a bit but not sure its much more vigorous than the spray. With a bath I place the luffa between my back and the back of the tub and move around. That actually should get it pretty good.

[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago
[-] morgan_423@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Get a back and shoulder loofah and call it a day (not endorsing this one, just using it as an example of what I'm talking about).

[-] klemptor@startrek.website 2 points 1 week ago

My arms are pretty flexible so I just use my hands & a washcloth.

[-] djsoren19 2 points 1 week ago

I got long arms and an exfoliating luffa. I just wash every part. There's no part of my back that I can't reach.

[-] Lazylazycat@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Do some yoga my friend!

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