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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by vatlark@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I don't know any Lemmy users IRL. I have nudged my friends towards it. My partner has asked me to post things a few times. Just curious.

Edit: running total including the commenter: 32.5 people

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[-] nadram@lemmy.world 39 points 2 months ago

None. Although I've never asked

[-] LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works 26 points 2 months ago
[-] Psythik@lemmy.world 24 points 2 months ago

0 and I hope I never meet any of you.

[-] QuincyPeck@lemmy.world 22 points 2 months ago

Lemmy? I can’t even get them off the goddamned Facebook.

[-] vatlark@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Ha, I have a few of those myself

[-] iSeth@lemmy.ml 21 points 2 months ago
[-] otp@sh.itjust.works 20 points 2 months ago

I've never met anyone in person who's even heard of Lemmy. Well, at least whenever it's brought up 😅

[-] konalt@lemmy.world 20 points 2 months ago

Trick question. I'm the only real user on the internet. Nice try.

[-] JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

Dead internet fact

[-] LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 months ago

That's what the bot would say.

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[-] BertramDitore@lemm.ee 15 points 2 months ago

Any time I’ve brought it up everybody glazes over the first time I say the words “instance” or “federated.” I’ve tried the email analogy, but they lose interest immediately.

[-] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Call them "communities", not "instances", that might work better

[-] Hyphlosion@lemm.ee 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

This made me think about my struggles with trying to learn moves in fighting games.

The tutorial can’t tell me the move with actual button combinations. No. Instead I have to read it as punch + kick + grab first. And because I’m a friggin’ noob, I have to try to interpret what buttons those actions are.

How is this relevant? It really isn’t, the more I think about it. Bad comparison. Ah well. At least you know how sad I am at fighting games now.

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[-] vatlark@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Yeah it's an annoying stumbling block. Blue Sky "fixed" that by only having one instance.

It feels like there should be a sign up page that just gives users a default instance (randomly selected from the top 10 maybe), to avoid the problem.

[-] lukecooperatus@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 months ago

Blue Sky "fixed" that by only having one instance.

I suppose we could "fix" it in a similar way by inviting people to a specific instance instead of pointing them at join-lemmy.org.(Although that site has improved massively since the last time I saw it.)

Don't even mention instances or federation, just say "hey you should join me on ".

Once they are using it, that's the first hurdle, and they'll notice pretty quickly that there are other servers that all (mostly) talk to each other.

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[-] mesamunefire@lemmy.world 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

2 in my local area. It's how I found out about it. We have been slowly growing the community.

[-] vatlark@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago
[-] socsa@piefed.social 13 points 2 months ago

Oh God I would never admit this to anyone IRL

[-] vatlark@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Haha, I stop short of giving them my username

[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 months ago

Buddy, I don't even know myself.

[-] Stovetop@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago

0, and happy to keep it that way.

[-] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

Zero. I know a couple of you nerds live in Philly and that terrifies me. I also know the reverse is true. This is the game we have agreed too.

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[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Zero. I think one lives near me based on some posts they made (as in near the same major city, could still be hours away). Another mentioned going to the same convention I go to every year but it's a massive convention that brings in people from all over the world. The two friends I have that used RIF is fun for Reddit back in the day switched to the official app instead of trying alternatives.

[-] sockman@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 months ago

No. No one else, which is great.

[-] danakongur@lemmy.spronkus.xyz 6 points 2 months ago

one of my friends uses lemmy

[-] chillBurner@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 months ago

No. No one else, which is too bad.

[-] Thorry84@feddit.nl 6 points 2 months ago

I have had people who I know from other platforms come across me on Lemmy. Just got a DM the other day saying "Found you", we had a good laugh about it since we didn't know we both used Lemmy. However IRL I don't think anyone I know is nerd enough to be on Lemmy.

[-] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 6 points 2 months ago

None. I normally don't give out my social media to people IRL, so there's no way they'd know I'm on Lemmy not I know they're on here either.

[-] Carighan@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

None, and that's probably a good thing. And also really not unexpected given how small the platform is.

[-] ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 5 points 2 months ago

Zero. However I would be interested in seeing anyone in real life. I feel like it would go do in Lemmy history.

[-] diabolik@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 2 months ago

None, as far as I know.

[-] MxRemy@piefed.social 5 points 2 months ago

I convinced one person to make an account but they don't use it. I do know another person IRL who uses Mastodon, so i send them Lemmy stuff there

[-] MakingWork@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 months ago

There seems to be 3 forum platforms.

  1. Lemmy
  2. Reddit
  3. Gab

I hear about reddit on the radio and people talk about reddit. No one talks about the other two.

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[-] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago

I have at least 3 friends IRL that are on Lemmy. One of them I got to join, and two are friends I met doing mutual aid and other organizing projects. Later found out they're on here.

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[-] SuperDuperKitten 4 points 2 months ago

None. Even trying to suggest Mastodon, still no luck which I just stopped as I'm just exhausted of hearing the answer "no".

[-] WheelcharArtist@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago
[-] QuentinCallaghan@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 months ago

Not a single one.

[-] faltryka@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

None here, had never thought about that. Now I feel lonely.

[-] vatlark@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

You have all of us and the Lemmy shenanigans. It's a pretty lively bunch.

[-] meldrik@lemmy.wtf 4 points 2 months ago
[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

My partner was on it for like a minute but I don't think they use it anymore. Certainly not as much as I do.

[-] ace_garp@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Seen with my own eyeballs?

2

But I'm pretty sure they post to Mastadon and it is visible here on Lemmy. Or maybe they have accounts on Lemmy.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[-] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago

I tell many people about it, probably none have signed up but it's not my business to know their username if they have. Might be fun to meet some of you.

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[-] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 months ago
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