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[-] karashta@piefed.social 123 points 2 months ago

These people both need to sit down and have some empathy for each other.

They could be growing stronger together through their struggles rather than making it some competition about who is worse off. (Which, in this case, the guy has started by not empathizing at all)

My mental health struggles in no way invalidate someone else's struggles.

I hate this kind of divisive bs.

[-] Mac@mander.xyz 19 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Division drives clicks. We are in the age of division. Everything is us vs them and everyone is always fighting. It's so tiring.

[-] DankOfAmerica@reddthat.com 3 points 2 months ago

Unity drives clicks. We are in the age of unification. Nothing is "us vs them" and no one is ever fighting. It's so refreshing.

Gotcha! Now you're part of the problem. It's your fault!!

[-] Kyouki@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Everyone also thinks or assumes they know better or best. There is no acceptance of other information maybe being correct even if you present solid evidence. They'll just take you for a fool who doesn't know instead of learning anything from who might have more background or experience.

I stopped doing anything arguments online all together because of this. (Happens irl too though but it's far less polarizing)

[-] Cris_Color@lemmy.world 77 points 2 months ago

This just in- man struggles with basic empathy, is wildly invalidating for no real reason to a person venting their frustrations

[-] EABOD25@lemm.ee 12 points 2 months ago

This just in- a man speaking for women on what to be upset about

[-] python@programming.dev 36 points 2 months ago

Advocating for basic empathy is really not a thing that has to be gatekept to one gender 🤷

[-] EABOD25@lemm.ee 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Ok then.

This just in- a person speaking for other people on what to be upset about

[-] Cris_Color@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

Are you referring to me, or the comic? (Earnest question, the internet makes things ambiguous sometimes)

[-] EABOD25@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago

You. A rule I stick with is everyone on the internet is male until proven otherwise. However evidence points that you are male.

[-] Cris_Color@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I didn't tell anyone what to feel, I described the guy in the comic as an asshole (for acting like a dick) in a silly way as if I were a news reporter. I think he's a dick.

I don't have to be a woman to say that it's a dick move to be invalidating to someone explaining that they struggle with a certain experience. Or to hear them and then immediately make it into a contest. That has nothing to do with being a man or a woman, and everything to do with having basic social skills and empathy.

And I'm "vaguely masculine" at best.

[-] EABOD25@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Lol. I get what you mean by "vaguely masculine."" My original argument can easily be put into the idea of individual persons going beyond the sexes. Speak for yourself as an individual. Let other people speak for themselves as individuals. Now, this is the part where you point out my hypocrisy, and to be honest, it's deserved. However, you should let people who are going to accept it or reject it speak for themselves. We are supposed to live with the idea that OUR voices matter, so speaking for another person completely contradicts the idea of individuality

[-] Cris_Color@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It seems odd to assume that the joke I posted was speaking for other people purely because I assumed the voice of a character, and then act like I'm somehow doing something wrong on the basis of that assumption

You assumed I meant other people should be mad about something- I didn't. You assumed I was a man- only in the loosest sense of the word. And then you criticised me for speaking on behalf of others by saying that I'm telling women what to be upset about? To be totally honest that sounds a hellofalot more speaking on other people's behalf than what I wrote.

I was being silly about the fact that he sounds like a dick. And I don't agree with the notion that I'm deserving of criticism for your misplaced assumptions :(

Regardless, take care. If I see you around lemmy again I hope our next interaction can be less hostile.

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[-] lime@feddit.nu 4 points 2 months ago

subjectivity is the default. if you assume every statement on the internet is meant to be objective, you'll go mad.

[-] EABOD25@lemm.ee 0 points 2 months ago

Every statement on the internet is objective. Guess I'm mad

[-] Xanthrax@lemmy.world 63 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

He's bleeding out of his vagina that often? He should see a doctor.

[-] Roflmasterbigpimp@lemmy.world 61 points 2 months ago

This Comic is stupid and bad. Nothing else to say.

[-] sad_detective_man@lemmy.dbzer0.com 39 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

men: suffering long and silently from generations of stifling social expectations and exploitation

this man: how can I make this into a competition as well?

[-] recklessengagement@lemmy.world 26 points 2 months ago

This comes across as incredibly emotionally immature.

[-] GladiusB@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

It's a joke? It's even in a comic from.

Like women don't bash men for how they act when they "have a fever" and it gets the six million likes.

It's meant to just be silly and funny and dark all at the same time. It seems even less mature to gaslight someone for just taking the time to actually relate.

[-] Soulg@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 months ago

People taking this stupid comic way too seriously in these comments

[-] bestelbus22@lemmy.world 22 points 2 months ago

What is there to like about this?

[-] Iceblade02@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

Sometimes our emotional batteries run low and we feel like mouthing off (like this guy is doing) instead of being sympathetic. Most people don't, but we can have a bit of a laugh relating to feeling like depicted in the comic. This helps us let out some of our negative emotions without anybody having to put up with them which in turn allows helps us to keep being emotionally supportive to those we care about.

[-] CidVicious@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 months ago

I'm a little unclear on what point the author is trying to make but perhaps that's because I'm not familiar with this comic.

[-] poplargrove@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago

The world will never know my pain...

[-] yamper@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago

this sub is just as unfunny as /r/comics and nearly as misogynist

[-] Lemminary@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

Can you explain how this is misoginy? Besides it trivializong periods for the sake of the joke, I don't see the hatred behind it.

[-] Juice@midwest.social 4 points 2 months ago

Its like saying all lives matter, kind of. I don't think this strip is misogynist, but there should be more to it. "I'm sad all the time" is different than the very real physical pain that women experience during their periods, the general problems women have even *getting" high quality reproductive care.

If the man had said, I'm really sad right now, and she was like, "yeah well I'm on my period," and then the comic would still be about insensitivity, in this case the subject is the dismal state of mental health care.

In fact that's what this comic is about...poor access to reproductive care and poor access to mental health care. They clearly both need help and aren't getting it from our capitalist healthcare system

[-] EarthShipTechIntern@lemm.ee 9 points 2 months ago

Some men are continuously menstruating?

Sure, why not? Would explain why the guy's being such a bitch.

[-] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 9 points 2 months ago

This might be better than the bear thing to explain to women how dangerous men are.

[-] forrgott@lemm.ee 13 points 2 months ago

Umm, what?

The bear thing is women speaking up about how dangerous men are. As in, they already know...

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[-] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 9 points 2 months ago

I mean...

At some point you feel so shit that you stop caring about others

Or that's just me and I already know I'm emotionally fucked

[-] Maggoty@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

In other news an area man was killed by his wife. Police are mystified as to the reason.

[-] Slovene@feddit.nl 5 points 2 months ago

Depression 🌠

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