Honestly, most "ugly" people can be reasonably attractive if they get in shape, eat healthily (especially in a way that clears up their skin) and style themselves (clothes, hair, etc) in a way that suits them. Plus finding good angles and lighting for photos/videos, and building up some confidence and charisma for in-person interactions. Those things aren't necessarily easy and they take patience and commitment, but most people can easily go up a few points on an attractiveness/10 scale if they manage them.

This. Hes not fucking ugly, thats the takeaway here lol

Most people do, they are just comparing themselves with models, celebs or influencers, people that earn a living out of being pretty.

Yeah, he looks like an average nerdy type guy. Not the best but also not the worst thing in the world. There's plenty of people who are into that type.

For some reason I read that as woman who talked about being ugly? And then I looked and I was like... Yeah I get it that looks like a dude.

He is extremely normal and average looking.

I think if he had gotten braces for his overbite and a nicer pair of glasses before that pic on the left, there wouldnt be anything to really point out at all yeah.

I didn't think I was ugly because I thought I was ugly. I thought I was ugly because no one wanted anything to do with me for reasons I couldn't comprehend.

I also noticed how "pretty" people didn't have anywhere near as hard of a time socializing as I did. They were allowed to have bad personalities. Even if I was as kind and helpful as I could possibly be I'd never be treated the same way as a "pretty" person would.

When I was young, I wanted to think of women in a way that I could look beyond typical attractiveness. I made a point to find something about everyone. It soon became apparent that everyone is beautiful in a way. Sometimes it's not a facial feature but there's always something. And I started to find a lot of women sexy even if I wasn't really sexually attracted to them. As life has gone on, it's been interesting to me how someone that might not be very pretty becomes hot as all be because of their talent or skills.

I always thought I was ugly but women always found me attractive. It was a hard thing to accept.

Especially if they have a furry profile picture.

even if they have a furry profile photo

I rather stay single.

Being tall is like 75% of being physically attractive according to most surveys.

People absolutely get that kind of confidence by being really good looking...

What you found was an outlier, a unicorn. It happens but that in no way changes reality.

I had a friend in college like Todd. Weird looking dude, but every time you talked to him you just felt good. He was fun to talk to and interesting but a good listener too. You were just happy to have spent time talking to him. Now I’m not into guys so I can’t say subjectively if that made him attractive, but based on what I’d heard he had all the men and women he wanted throwing themselves at him, and I believe it.

And for the people saying your friend was leaning on height, this guy was about the height of the average woman and hung out with a lady over 6’

Ah blame the ugly people! That'll show em!

Haircut sure, tan tho?? What are you 45? He also needed some different glasses and maybe hit the gym more. I hate how that makes me sound haha

I mean she found him cute so he wasn't actually ugly.

I on the other hand get "oh, you looked better from far away." You want ugly I can show you ugly! Lmao

Edit: I'd "love" to gross you all out with my picture, but I value being at least somewhat anonymous so I don't want to link a picture to my username lol

If that’s what actually happened she likely fucked herself over.

Most countries require years of history before citizenship is granted, and if you divorce before that (without “cause” like abuse) you’re not getting benefits. And if it comes out that it was all for citizenship/visa (ex. green card marriage) you get yourself on a list for trying to defraud the government and can’t return. Not to mention the fines and potential jail time.

Have you tried making a video reaching 20m views?

Post pic, I won't marry you but I will say something nice.

Sorta disagree. Honesty and respect really mean a lot to people most just can't figure out how to express it

Uhhhhh what the fuck?