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most “ugly” people put themselves into a box. take care of yourself, wash your face, brush your teeth, eat somewhat decently, put minimal effort into your appearance, and have a speck of self confidence and you can change your world.
I know it can be daunting especially if you have legitimate mental health issues that affect how you view yourself but trust me theres very few “ugly” looking people in this world and most of them still make it work by having a good decent personality.
Most people are ugly because they have a ugly personality.
Ah blame the ugly people! That'll show em!
thanks for proving my point champ
That you're lying to make yourself feel better? Umm ok
Have fun wallowing in self pity.
Actually, I'm above average in looks, but I don't need to lie about it being an advantage. I also have empathy for other humans, so I treat them with respect by not blaming them for their disadvantage...
i don’t remember blaming or lacking empathy for people who are perceived as ugly.
In fact its funny that you say that people with looks that aren’t conventionally “attractive” are “disadvantaged.” which by the way is a fucking awful way to look at people.
It proves my point that you arent ugly because of how you look but how you act and to me thats what makes you ugly.
and you are quite an ugly cunt
"Ugly people have ugly personalities, if you disagree with me I'll count that as an ugly personality"
What a ridiculous self-fulfilling prophecy. If someone disagreeing with you is enough for you to dislike them, I very much prefer to be "ugly" to you and for you to remain the fuck away.
I kind of mesh with this thought.
I make a solid effort to take care of myself, present myself as best I can, and find joy in the things that I do. I've also been mostly alone for a long time, not by choice, and I feel it's likely that has to do with my appearance. I'm okay with that. I still view my own image positively, though I don't think others do. I accept that's not due to anyone's malice - since when I look at others, I'm susceptible to standards of beauty as well.
Still, whenever that comes up in online discussions like this one, people seem magnetized to the belief I have this "ugly personality" to be alone. Some people do - that much is true. But it's also long been the case that not everyone has an equal and fair shot in life. I'm also glad I wasn't born to an impoverished African country with no running water.
Humans are, sadly, wired to associate beauty with morality and talent, and reversely, to associate ugliness with immorality, and even though we have increasing proof of this bias, plenty of people would sooner judge complete strangers from the comfort of their PC chairs than engage in a little self-reflection. I consider myself slightly handsome, but I'll still get shit until the end of my days because my mannerisms as an autistic person are considered alien. If it's any consolation, finding friendship and love with these handicaps is not impossible, just harder.
Are you japanese or something? I swear I heard this from an entertainer from there when she asked her boss why was everyone so pretty at the company.
no ive just been lucky to meet truly beautiful and gorgeous people who are not conventionally considered “attractive.”
LOL
Are you sure there are few ugly people? Ah wait.. that might mean I am one of the few. Sad