Part of the problem is that men are simply not on alert for bad behavior. They have the luxury of being unaware. When my friend's dad groped me at a party, I was in a conversation circle with him and 3 of my male friends. None of them noticed him doing it, none of them noticed me going stiff and pale. None of them questioned why I suddenly felt sick and immediately called an Uber to leave.

The dad felt totally comfortable to do that literally less than 2 feet from three other men because you guys aren't looking out for it in a way that women are. Alternatively, I've had stranger women come up to me in public to ask me if I'm uncomfortable because a guy at a gas station is talking to me while I pump my gas. We're looking out for each other.

"We all a society" have absolutely not pushed out bad actors. If anything, women have closed ranks, but in my experience the men have not, without explicit instruction, called out bad behavior.