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I understand and agree to some point.
Its just often that you find what you expect and meeting strangers expecting or rather fearing that you'll get stabbed may often lead to other social complications.
Normal situation awareness is very good to have and acknowledging that there are risks in any actions is the best approach to any interaction.
The question is how much weight you add to them. Tailgating is risky yes. So is driving, flying, traveling to foreign countries, changing career, investing money.
My point is not to ignore the risks, but to not let the fear dictate expectations. You are probably right about chances of a guy stabbing a woman are higher than a woman stabbing a man, due to rejection. But what are the chances of being stabbed altogether? People get rejected all the time. Most get sad. Some get angry. Some maybe very angry. But fearing for ones life because of it feels a bit overrated
Maybe if men treated other men like they do women, they’d start getting more afraid of the other men.
Fuck no we'd be less afraid.
I think ill leave this discussion now
The risks to driving, flying, etc. aren't actively hunting you out. Nor are they trying to trick you into thinking they aren't a risk. There's a difference.