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[-] Kayday@lemmy.world 20 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Being raised in a very conservative environment, I wasn't able to even articulate what a transgender person was until I was an adult. Before that, crossdresser was the closest thing in my vocabulary. I always knew I would rather be a woman and preferred feminine things, but after hearing, "boys don't do that," enough times I took a hint. When I learned more about what it means for someone to be transgender, it just clicked. "Oh, I guess I am transgender. Too bad that's a sin™."

Since then it has felt like I've spent most of my life trying to piece the egg shell back together, rather than seeing it crack. I gave up on putting the egg back together though.

[-] Caitlyynn 6 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Oh, that sounds rough, I hope you're doing alright now

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