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[-] Pasta4u@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago

I went to a public high school where boys had to wear long pants all year round. We didn't have air conditioners. Meanwhile girls would wear skirts.

So stop woth the sexism.

Public schools should just have uniforms of a polo shirt and slacks , shorts or knee high skirts and that is it.

It will help also woth poor kids not having to be made fun of when some people come in with Gucci purses amd expensive shit.

[-] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 39 points 1 year ago

Sounds like the dress code hurts boys as well. The solution is still to reform.

I've heard of male students wearing skirts in protest and that normally works with the Puritan school administrators.

[-] Pasta4u@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Yes we wore kilts to protest and the. A few years later they did the same thing woth walk outside and. A heat wave putting finals in a 100 degree weather and they changed it.

Uniforms is what works. It prevents bullying

[-] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I'm having a hard time parsing out your liberal interpretation of grammar.

Uniforms is what works. It prevents bullying

So does actually enforcing anti-bullying laws, but that would take effort by the teachers.

[-] Pasta4u@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Children and teenagers can't be watched 24/7 and with larger class sizes it's very hard to catch all bullying.

But you already know thay.

[-] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I've had it happen repeatedly in plain view of the teacher during class. But I guess you never experienced that. Must be nice.

[-] Pasta4u@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

You shouldn't assume what others have gone through. You just look like an ass when you do

[-] EsheLynn 36 points 1 year ago

Who purchases the uniforms? You mentioned impoverished kids being made fun of, but the parents have to buy the expensive, overinflated uniforms as well. Wouldn't that put more strain on less well off families, having to buy specific clothes for their child's attendance, each year for each child?

[-] paintbucketholder@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I'm generally not in favor of uniforms, but this argument really goes both ways: who purchases (potentially very expensive brand) clothes in a school setting where the expectation is that kids constantly wear nice, new clothes to school? Even assuming that bullying or mobbing based on clothes isn't an issue, the cost to keep buying outfits could easily be higher than the cost of uniforms.

That said, I've known problematic settings only by proxy. At my school, nobody gave a fuck about what students were wearing, there was no dress code, and I would have absolutely hated being forced to wear a uniform.

[-] PsychedSy@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago

No. It was just single colored shirt and pants. We got wal mart shirts for the dress code. They'll still fuck with you for your shoes.

[-] Cethin@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 year ago

Yeah, kids will bully other kids no matter what. It doesn't matter what the rules allow to be worn.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

The parents do. We have to purchase school supplies and get nickeled and dimed for PTO stuff and field trips plus the school lunches.

Imagine if we expected soldiers to buy their rifle, pay for their meals, pay for their uniforms, imagine the outcry about troop readiness. Why do we tolerate it with education?

[-] atrielienz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Crazily enough we do to some extent. They issue you a bunch of stuff in boot camp. It comes out of your pay.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

It's sorta the same but not, the government knows the money is there they are just doing funny accounting. When the school sends me a notice that one of my kids needs something they have no idea what my financial situation is. This matters. Soldiers can concentrate on learning how to do their thing, students are distracted by demands to figure out how to buy something.

[-] dragonflyteaparty@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago

I disagree completely. Uniforms have been proven to not help with anything they claim to. For one, they generally can't be bought second hand.

[-] jasondj@ttrpg.network 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Dude if you’re a parent with a friend group of other parents in your school district, there will absolutely be hand-me-downs going all over the damn place.

My kids have so many clothes that they’ve never worn because we just keep passing clothes around, between their friends and cousins, everyone is growing so fast, it’s foolish to be spending a ton of money on brand new clothes unless we need something for a specific special occasion.

I’m sure school uniforms, as long as they are consistent, would be swapped around. I’m sure there would be parent groups forming on Nextdoor and Facebook to swap clothes. And I’m sure they would show up at the thrift stores.

Secondhand uniforms would not be a problem.

But honestly the most important part is that schools don’t treat it as a fundraiser. They should be able to buy in bulk and coordinate with neighboring districts on selection to maximize discounts, and sell at slightly above cost in order to offset free/reduced cost outfits for low income families.

In other words, in theory, it should be less expensive to dress your kids in school uniform.

Personally I think uniforms solve a lot more problems than they cause. They sacrifice a bit of self-expression (at least the older kids, who mostly dress and style themselves), but at the same time, it takes a big hit out of financial inequality bullying. Combined with universal lunch programs it basically destroys it.

That in itself is worth it. Kids getting bullied (or feeling empowered, for that matter) for things 100% out of their control (like the caste they’re born into) shouldn’t be a thing.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Fine you have convinced me. I expect you to send meoney to pay for my kids uniform. Money order or cash since you don't seem like a person of your word.

[-] jimbolauski@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Private schools have used uniform sales, buying second hand is not a problem.

[-] Smoogs@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Private schools are not public schools. Impoverished cannot afford private schools. And Uniforms are not interchangeable.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Hey here is an idea. School uniform companies should make it so they have to change it every year like textbook makers do. All it will take to convince the school is telling them that the old uniforms were end-of-lifed and a campaign donation to the school board reps. Parents will be offered a 5% discount if they mail back their old clothing. The clothing will interlock together so you can't mix last year's shirt with this year's pants without it being super noticeable. Which will kill the secondary market.

CaaS, clothing as a service. You will own nothing and be happy.

Brb getting turtleneck on, because I am a visionary now.

[-] Smoogs@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago
[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

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What do you think about data mining our customers and selling that information?

[-] Smoogs@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

enshitfication is speedy now a days

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Should I already prepare my announcement to do damage control after we broke a feature our customers liked?

[-] Smoogs@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I think we should just purposely break the website so they can’t give feedback or make it as annoying as possible. Let them waste hours on a website trying to give feedback on a loop of where their login fails and their profile continues to disappear until they give up. Or you could just remove the ability to give feedback altogether. And put a contact number on the website that puts them on hold indefinitely. That’s what I hear the cool kids are doing.

[-] jimbolauski@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Ed choice has enabled many kids to attend private schools, tutition is actually less than the cost per pupil that that public schools cost.

[-] Smoogs@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Wtf is Ed choice. Oh. another ‘only American’/scholarship-rewarding-elites thing again. You’re using ‘many’ very liberally.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

A way to divert money from public sector to scumbags in private sector who won't follow any of the government regulations or take underperforming students.

Private schools can fire someone for being LGBT, public schools can't. Private schools can share private medical information with parents (like being LGBT) or seeking birth control, public can't except under very regulated conditions. Private schools can get out of teaching evolution and sex ed, public schools can't. The list goes on and on. Public funding of private schools breaks a century of progress. We are going to see a brave new world with football couches and school admins making millions while teachers are making daycare worker salaries teaching from books based on a prot understanding of the bible.

[-] EsheLynn 11 points 1 year ago

If you are going to a private school, it's kinda implied money isn't a huge issue anyways. Your parents are paying for you to attend this exclusive school, after all.

But you can't take Johnson Academy's uniform to Brentwood. So, if Brentwood isn't having a sale, what then?

[-] jimbolauski@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Ed choice has enabled many kids to attend private schools.

Kids grow and their uniforms don't fit, giving them to the school to resell as a fundraiser or giving them directly to other students is common. On top of that most private schools do not have embroidered cressents on their uniforms so they can be used interchangeably. Private schools are different than what you see on TV.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Citation needed that every private school on earth has one

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[-] optissima@possumpat.io 27 points 1 year ago

I'm sorry why is your solution "make the poors pay for something else."

[-] Pasta4u@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Poor kids still need clothes. But if you have a uniform you only need a few shirts and pants and they are all the same so no.one will know if you only have three sets of the uniform.

If you need to wear a different outfit every day to.school you would need at least five completely different outfits and to be oerfectly honest at least 10 so you wouldn't repeat often enough for people to notice younare wearing the same outfits all the time.

Uniforms actually reduce costs for.poor students and reduce bullying.

But of course run your mouth with nonsense cause it sounds smart.

[-] optissima@possumpat.io 1 points 1 year ago

I was one of those poor kids, so I remember being price gouged every year when I no longer fit my clothing. I also remember switching to a school that didn't, and suddenly it was less expensive because, unlike your implication, I didn't run around naked outside of my uniform when not in school, and wore the same clothing in and out. I also remember doing research and citing sources for my claims, which you seem to be short on. Maybe it's because you're not wearing your uniform right now? Can you provide a source for any of your claims?

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Yeah this is all wrong

  1. It won't be clothing can just get at Walmart, is practical, and comfortable. It will be polyester Landsend shit that is too expensive, rips easily, takes weeks to get there, and feels like steel wool on your skin. Meanwhile teachers and admins will continue to wear what they want.

  2. It won't promote equality since the poor kids will just have ripped up stuff and the rich kids will load up on the accessories

  3. Fucking deal with it. You should be able to handle not having the best clothing in life. I did.

My school tried a uniform for a few years and I have never once forgave them for that. I won't allow my kids to be punished the same way. Also someone found their old uniform in the attic many years later, shredded it with a knife, and mailed it to their former principal with a note that told them that's what I think of your messed up uniform policy you forced on us.

[-] Pasta4u@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

You aren't well informed and just are going off your own personal experience.

I worked for a school district that implemented school uniforms after a kid attempted suicide for bullying.

The dress code required polo shirts from multiple companies including target, Walmart, Costco house brands and slacks or black jeans with no rips. Bullying drastically dropped across schools in the district (there were 9 schools)

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

The kids name? Albert Einstein. And everyone clapped.

[-] Pasta4u@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

It would be Alberta since either was a female. But good try.

[-] luky@infosec.pub 6 points 1 year ago

not agreeing. i would want to wear my clothes. just casual, nothing gucci or else. the school should offer uniforms but without forcing studemts to wear it. something like an advertisement.

[-] Kage520@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

You're getting down voted but as someone who had exactly 3 shirts and 2 pair of shorts in high school, I would have vastly preferred a uniform mandate. My mom had enough money she just didn't see extra clothes as a necessary expense for her. She would have been forced to get the uniforms and I would have had an easier time in high school.

People are also saying that's an unnecessary expense for the poor people, but why can the school afford the building, the teachers, administration, etc, but not 5 pairs of clothes for the students? Maybe even for need based students?

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

why can the school afford the building, the teachers, administration, etc, but not 5 pairs of clothes for the students

Even in public schools, parents have to pay for the gym uniform. Books too.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I have not paid a cent for either and my kids attend public

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