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I think Iโve always had them? Though I didnโt really process them until more recently. I really like them. Iโve thought about getting dermal stud piercings in them. Something like this
Omg that would be so cool/hot tho!
I'll have to ask my bf what he prefers ๐คญ
Reminds me a tiny bit of my piercings pre-HRT. I had both nipples pierced, but unfortunately had to remove them due to...well, growing breasts ๐
Wait, seriously!?
Yes. I got them as a gift from our bf for our anniversary, if you mean having the piercings.
If you mean having to remove them...it's definitely a bad idea to keep them on E. Your breasts are growing, the tissue is changing...it's not good to have a barbell through your nipples at that time ๐
I've heard that it's recommended to wait at least year or two years after starting HRT before getting them pierced again.
I will NOT be doing that, since the first time I almost fainted because of the pain and I literally cannot imagine going through that with nipples as sensitive as these...
Well fuck. I cannot go thru that again. Ty for letting me know! ๐ฅฒ
I'm sorry. I really wish we'd get to keep them. They were impractical...but also really hot and affirming
But...boobs be growing ๐