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[-] testaccount789@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago

Best thing, though unfortunately not quite possible, would be to check each other's ID.

  1. You can be certain about each other's age.
  2. Should they harm you, you now know who the other person is, and they get the same reassurance.

But that conversation wouldn't work.

[-] Schadrach@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 1 week ago

You can be certain about each other’s age.

...unless they have a fake ID. Which in turn is not in any way a defense should you perform certain acts with them that are illegal due to age. You're just supposed to be able to sense the difference between someone slightly above and slightly below the line in your jurisdiction.

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 6 points 1 week ago

Wait, regular young people didn't used to ask for ID on dates? I guess I was just paranoid.

[-] MJKee9@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

The problem with this strategy is you can still be prosecuted for statutory rape even if you relied on a fake ID.

[-] HCSOThrowaway@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I can confirm this is the case in my state.

[-] HCSOThrowaway@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

FYI this is not allowed to be used as a defense in court in some states (e.g. mine). If you card them and they have a fake ID, you're still criminally culpable for anything untoward.

[-] jdr@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

Unforch, knowing someone's government name is disappointingly ineffective at preventing or remediating harm, in my experience.

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