You trying to tell me what my experience of this world was and is like is really rude and ignorant.

Like obviously I adopted some bad/toxic behaviour of people treating me like a man but you can unlearn that, be better.

Silly example: lots of men do not wash their hands after using the toilet, it is in male circles generally accepted as normal behaviour. When transitioning I very quickly washed my hands everytime, because of how normal it is for all women in the bathroom to just wait their turn to wahs their hands...

Am I now "feeeemale socializeeed" wahahahahha?

No I would not even say so.

female and male, in this context, are used to mostly describe the bad manly and good womanly behavior.

This bad male behavioral traits however, you will notice are not exclusive to men in your life. If a cis women is speaking up loud and interrupts other people (and there are those that do this) you would not call them male socialized but obnoxious, inconsiderate and loud. There is literally no reason why you should not just call out bad behavior for what it is, rather than to blame a persons asigned gender at birth for it.

Just do not push your ideals of gender on the behavior of people, judge them by their character.