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Really struggling lately.
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this post was submitted on 10 Jul 2026
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It has been hard. I have been trying to reach out to the few friends that I have but it is difficult to talk to some of them and the ones I do feel comfortable with are currently going through loss and trying to find a job. I don't like putting my problems on others. I wish I could afford to go back to weekly therapy sessions but between my meds, appointments, and a surgery next week... I'm just so overwhelmed. Been trying to get another job but I've been turned down hundreds of times at this point. I have severe Rheumatoid Arthritis, like to the point I couldn't walk, I've gained a bunch of weight. Plus the clinic I go to won't do gender affirming care.
Thanks for responding. It's good that you're here talking. I know there's very little we can do to help you materially but we'll always be here to listen.
There are resources available for getting hormones the unofficial way too if you can't get a doctor to provide them for you.
I really appreciate it ๐ I've been bottling it up for a bit. It's nice being able to talk about it and knowing someone is listening.
We're always in here. Sending love.