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I came out to a bunch of people and it went fine!!!
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Very true haha 😂 Agree it’s not the ideal plan, but if I don’t get an offer somewhere else soon, I might go for it! I’m just so sick of having to boymode every weekday.
But I do already have a bit of a paper trail going on this stuff… I guess I just worry that HR would side with the director who has been here more than a decade, instead of the trans girl who’s been there less than 3.
If things blow up, keep cool and if HR comes to you with something to sign - even if it means they'll pay you some compensation- DONT SIGN ANYTHING! Get an employment lawyer - they live for this shit, and some will work on commission. This could be a great opportunity!
HR will side with the company, every time.
That MIGHT mean stonewalling you, if they think they can get away with it.
It MIGHT mean a cheque and you signing a release.