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turns out, i am gay again! (discuss.tchncs.de)
submitted 5 days ago by phr@discuss.tchncs.de to c/mtf
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[i am unsure where this belongs, transjoy? mental health? here where i made the mentioned first post? ... idk how crossposing works here πŸ‘‰πŸ‘ˆ]

you may remember me lamenting the loss of the 'gay' label since empirically i was usually atracted to men but due to me being mtf that's quite straight now ... well there's a lot to say about this. i might be best described as bi/pan actually.

anyhow. peeps, i met the bestest girl in recorded history. we've known each other for a while and shared a hobby, but recently found out we might like each other more, when we had a ridiculously romcom-esque weekend. so we started dating, and my heart is exploding. every day. i will see her again tomorrow, but it doesn't feel like i can survive that 24 hours. (yes, all very fresh.)

the only thing i am afraid of rn, is that she eventuall 'finds out' i am just three(+) diagnoses in a trench coat. i admire her and her work so much i don't know how she could be interested in me. i also don't want to make her reassure me all the time .. bc we don't feed the brain worms. but i feel like, i needed to tell someone. 😘

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[-] kivihiili 11 points 5 days ago

WELL WELL WELL

but seriously though that is incredibly awesome.

i admire her and her work so much i don’t know how she could be interested in me.

having been on the other end of this, it will be ok!! you said both of y'all have known eachother for a while. she certainly made the decision to date you knowing who you are. she likes you, don't overthink it!

have fun frolicking in the fields together!!! <3

p.s.: plushies make really really awesome gifts :3

[-] phr@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

aww yiss! i was thinking about something .. maybe i'll find a cute plush frog. (and there goes my afternoon. ;p)

i will form a mantra of that. she likes me for a reason. she likes me for a reason ..

this post was submitted on 06 Jul 2026
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