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All the doctors I've talked to said it was because of HRT.
Doctors are notorious for blaming any issue on hormones. You could go in with a broken arm and somehow it is the hormone's fault...
Even my brother who is a doctor thinks it's because of hormones, so at this point I don't care. If it's something else I'm not going to find anyone who knows what it is, so if I have to die of some condition so be it ๐
If you were a cis woman on hormonal birth control for years, i don't think a doctor would declare a 1:1 causative link between the hormones and these symptoms. They would recognize the hormones as a factor, but not the only cause.
Cis women get dismissed a lot more by doctors than anyone else... I feel like you're downplaying how many women die of medical malpractice because doctors dismiss women's pains.
You're saying that cis women get dismissed more than trans women? Ok. That doesnt change that blaming every health problem on hormones is some misogynist bs
Depends on the country
Trans broken arm syndrome. I am nearing 10 years HRT. I am the healthiest I have ever been.
Your doctors are stupid, sorry you had to experience that.
I will say that not all doctors are familiar with trans medicine. And many are transphobic.