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Great question the answer is pretty much no.
Either you live with the guilt or you change your moral framework to make it not bad.
Is "I couldn't find another job because nobody wants to employ a 64-year old and I have bills to pay" changing your moral framework?
Or how about "it's the only job offer I got out of 458 applications and I have 3 kids and a mortgage"?
Being able to make an actual choice is a huge privilege.
Then you live with the guilt, which is still better than lying to yourself, but still pretty hard. That is were most of us are.
Nobody forced you to have kids or a mortgage
That's what I've come to realize when transitioning from high school to college. I fear that accepting the guilt may lead to rationalizing the behavior - having apathy towards those your work is harming tends to prevent motivation towards changing the status quo.
I think there's a famous phrase as well about "being paid very well to not consider the issue rationally".
At least in my understanding: accepting the guilt doesn't make it go away. changing your view of morality is where it rationalizes and erases it.
(which ofcourse is a fine line)