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Help me see the funny side, embarrassing storytime
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Yeah, I'd like to do the baby trans thing if I were younger and didn't have kids in school. The place I live is accepting but judgemental, if that makes sense. I don't want to put my kids through any more stress than they're already going through. So I'm going to be boymoding until it doesn't work and then going to sensible adult fashion đ„±.
Yeah i think so. Not inherently hateful, but somewhat conservative around how everybody ought to comport themselves? Meaning they'll accept you for who you are, as long as nobody is too "extra" about it? If true, then that's not great, but also not terrible. I wish for you that you could present exactly as you would like to and that people would mind their own fucking business about things that dont affect or concern them. But that doesn't change your reality.
Maybe once in a while, if it's something you want, you might find a chance to take a night off from being sensible, some time or place where it doesn't impact anyone else, and you can dork out and enjoy it. I respect that you are always thinking about your kids feelings though. That's being a good mom <3.
It's more of a "I don't necessarily like it and will say hurtful things behind their back but believe they should have a legal right and am able to keep my opinions to myself for the sake of civility. Norwegians are very conflict avoidant except for their neighbours.
Thanks for explaining your perspective. It sounds tough. <3.
I don't think I'd be in any real danger or anything, but my kids would definitely get bullied for it.