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submitted 4 days ago by GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip to c/trans

I'm afab, nb and have a very androgynous look, but with wide ish hips that kind of give me some mild dysphoria since puberty. How do you deal with a part of yourself you cant change? Any tips?

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[-] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 16 points 4 days ago

I'm the opposite, transfem with narrow hips. With me the dysphoria is more biochemical though, so if I'm on hrt it doesn't bother me as much, whereas if I'm off it I feel despair that I'll never look like a 'real girl'

[-] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 4 points 4 days ago

Interesting insight, thank you!

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