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I guess that's my worry is as a lesbian I still want to be with women and it worries me to take penetration off the table since it's all I know right now and it is very fun.
Thank you so much for your input this is all really helpful
You're welcome! If penetration is what you're worried about, strap-ons exist. I know it's not the same and have honestly never tried them but maybe it scratches the same itch. And also I think viagra still works when you're on HRT, so you're probably good and don't need to worry about it :)
As the other commenter mentioned viagra/cialis absolutely does work while on HRT, and can be combined with pumps and/or rings to easily continue engaging in traditional penetrative sex if you want to. I've had great results with this device that combines both, it's surprisingly easy to use