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Femcel Memes
Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.
Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.
A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.
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RSD is annoying to have.
Tell me about it. I'm with my first ever partner, they're absolutely amazing and I really don't know how I'd be doing without them, and yet every single tiny little thing makes me feel like they're gonna leave me even though I still believe them when they say they love me. I don't know what's wrong with my brain but I don't like it, I just wanna be able to believe they love me without constantly worrying that I'm doing something wrong
Oh, we can pretty much trace the trauma that led us to be like this, but it's still frustrating.
We can't properly heal until we are away from those who caused it in the first place, as they keep retraumatising us, which is difficult when they also caused us trauma about work (though working also did that), and we're anti-capitalist, anti-hierarchy and get PDA from people telling us to do things, so we are stuck.
But yeah, it's gotten better 5 years into the relationship and with therapy, but despite being polyamorous and relationship anarchists we don't envision us having any other partners soon as most people we don't trust and we take a long time to want to even meet physically, or if we have met then do anything more intimate than just talking, or we suppose we don't like doing intimate things online even for a long time either.
Still, RSD can appear randomly in certain situations, we do our best to deal with it, but we maybe need more intense therapy beyond just talk therapy, like ReParenting or EMDR.