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submitted 2 days ago by dandelion to c/trans

this is along with name, race and other demographic information

They don't have a gender field, and it really feels like they are just reducing sex and gender down to "you are what you were assigned at birth", and then hiding behind amorphous medical "reasons" as justification ....

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[-] dandelion 1 points 1 day ago

hm, how does taking a natural supplement relate to the discussion about DIY risks? I'm sorry but I'm having such a hard time following or connecting the dots here ... were you at any point using DIY HRT and did that ever overlap with the medical problem, or is your point more broad that having medical supervision generally would have helped?

[-] elredwine@mastodon.social 1 points 1 day ago

@dandelion
It is possible that I am misunderstanding your definition of DIY. To me, DIY would refer to buying estrogenic supplements, whether in pill, cream, or liquid form, and self-administering.

Example: I first tried liquid supplements from a vitamin store, then moved to pills when the drops did nothing. The pills helped a little but, yes, without medical supervision, I ended up with life-threatening issues.

[-] dandelion 2 points 1 day ago

oh, no - DIY means you buy actual estradiol, either produced in a lab or compounded by amateurs in a home lab - but either way it's not estrogenic supplements, but actual estradiol - real medicine.

No phytoestrogens are helpful for feminizing, no supplements can replace hormone replacement therapy. With DIY you are still getting bioidentical hormones, you're just not getting them from an official pharmacy with a doctor's prescription, the difference is that you are buying it from the grey-market (or in the case of DIY testosterone, from the black-market).

So no, I wouldn't consider what you did DIY, and I'm so sorry the supplements caused liver failure, that is genuinely heart breaking :-(

[-] elredwine@mastodon.social 2 points 1 day ago

@dandelion

Thanks for taking the time to explain and clear this up for me. I truly appreciate it. 😊

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