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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by dandelion to c/lesbians

to avoid injury in the past, I have cycled through techniques - the tongue circling around the clit, sucking the clit back and forth and loosely, sucking the clit more intensely, etc. but this can take a while to build to orgasm (alternating techniques is less tightly rhythmic, for example)

recently I've noticed pressing the tongue broadly and with force on and around the clit is really effective, but the problem I run into is that the cadence and build-up sort of lock me into continuing to do that, often faster and at least with similar or more force

this approach gave me a wound that appeared the next day, on the frenulum of the tongue (the little bridge under the tongue), probably from where my teeth rubbed against it?

obviously the tongue and jaw can feel sore, too - but soreness is fine, while having a wound is more problematic

any tips?

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[-] Cevilia 4 points 1 week ago

Seems your partner likes lots of direct stimulation. Stupid question: have you tried using your fingers instead of, or as well as, your tongue?

[-] dandelion 3 points 1 week ago

yes! I definitely use fingers, too - I just also like to give head and to find paths to orgasm by different means. Especially if I'm growing my nails out ๐Ÿ˜„

[-] dandelion 2 points 1 week ago

ha, I do sometimes manage my nails that way - I just hate the way it looks. I don't mind the index finger and thumb being short, but the middle finger being short while the ring finger is long bothers me. It's worse because I play bass with my right hand, so both hands occasionally have to be clipped that way.

[-] Cevilia 2 points 1 week ago

I get you, I love giving oral too. As suggested elsewhere, a mouthguard should help. You can get them pretty cheaply online or in larger supermarkets. :)

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