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Whine harder you assholes
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No. Not wanting to have your car stolen by a gay person does not make you a homophobe. It just makes you a normal person that doesn't want to be stolen from. Equally, wanting a game to be entertainment, not political messaging does not make you conservative.
Most people had no issue with diverse characters that are part of a game, see Life is Strange. They do when you turn a game into political PSA at the expense of the rest of the game, see Valeguard.
Ah yes, the two sexualities - political and non-political. You really aren't as far along as you think.
I can accept that you are unhappy and want your games to not make you feel uncomfortable. Gods forbid they ever be like every other form of media and actually have a message they want to convey or try anything new. I can say having something tailored specifically for you is quite nice - now that more of us actually get to experience that.
You are missing the point entirely. Playing as a homosexual character did not make me feel uncomfortable, even though I understand if it did for some people. Even so, not every game is for everyone. It is fine to have games focused at different audiences.
But when you hand over writing your game characters and story to groups like SBI, whose only qualification is "inclusive writing", than it destroys games for everyone and you get entirely justified backlash from gamers.
Same if you take an established franchise and change the target audience.
Unfortunately, just like you don't make distinction between the actual homophobes and people who just want good writing and game design, a lot of gamers once pissed of don't distinguish between good inclusion and forced, badly executed one. And than you get the polarized BS of today.
There's no "actual homophobes" vs " not homophobic but still unhappy that queer people and 'forced inclusion' are in a game people" - that's just different degrees of homophobia.
Games changed a bit so that they aren't all made for you specifically. Those franchises didn't belong to you and for some people those 'ruined games' are their favorite games. Everyone has studios they don't like. Not all representation is gunna be great because not all writing is going to be great but when inclusion "ruins it for everyone" in your veiw look around and ask if the people around you who are discussing it is actually a good cross section of "everyone".
That's the same kind of argument as saying criticizing Israeli genocide is antisemitism. There are objectively bad things done in the name of inclusion. Criticizing them is not homophobic. If you are going to pretend they are, that you are somehow above criticism just because your stated goal is noble, don't be surprised when people turn against you.
Are these "bad things in the name of inclusion" just making a game you don't like? The push against "inclusion" on a general scale has lead to real world harms because a bunch of babies can't come to terms with there being pieces of media with choices they don't like and threw a fucking tantrum. There isn't really a side anymore where railing against the harms of "inclusion" isn't propping up the arguement that minorities "earned" the actions against them by asking "too much".
People will take your words as tacit endorsement that queer people "had this coming" because a bunch of businesses responded to a body of queer theory and made some fucking games. The anti-DEI crowd is the Conservative crowd and you might be on the fringe but you aren't outside the radius.
That is exactly why your stance is pissing me off so much. People like you, who don't care how their ideas impact other people as long as they are inclusive, are pushing massive amounts of people towards the conservative side of the argument. I don't think that makes those people conservative, for some reason you do. Regardless, we both agree it hurts queer people.
So was it worth it? A bunch of poorly written queer characters in games and movies in exchange for pissing off a portion of otherwise tolerant population and pushing it towards conservatism?
Was it worth it? Coming down hard on queer and telling us we're terrible people for daring tp ask for something better and throwing your lot in with the oppressors at the smallest hurdle?
Yes, deflect the question, misrepresent the issue, and blame everyone around. Just avoid any introspection.
There is no "worth it" here for the non-queer gamers in the first place. It costs them (seemingly) nothing to throw queers under the proverbial bus and oppose any inclusivity. The only thing stopping people is sympathy and goodwill. Being a decent human being. Which tends to go out of the window quickly, when you actively try to destroy what those people care about. People don't have sympathy for people that "picked a fight" with them first. They just "fight" back.
And before you pretend games are insignificant and people shouldn't do this "just because of games", remember you picked this "fight" because of representation in games as well. Can't have it both ways. Games either don't matter (in which case what are we arguing about) or they do.
Gamers care about games. They have always pushed back hard against people messing with their games, whether it is "concerned parents" (religious conservatives), queers, or payment processors. If you believe that it is just homophobia, you are deluding yourself.
So I ask you again, is it really worth it to push things like SBI, that produce objectively bad games for everyone, knowing it will destroy sympathy and goodwill you have with gamers?
You don't have to answer here, just think about it. Because you can't expect understanding and sympathy from others if you are not trying to understand and sympathise with them as well.
Because I don't find you terribly sympathetic. Yes, I would like better inclusion and more variety in games and can look at past examples and point out what worked and what didn't from a queer perspective but you came in hot with your nose out of joint about how what is being asked is bad "for everyone" as though you are the arbitor of the everyman.
It's worthless to conceed ground over and over again to people who always wanted us to disappear. It doesn't work. You want to go on the woke advisory board on Steam and see how nit picky they get? This isn't about media. This is part of an interconnected effort to get all of us to disappear from public life forever and it didn't start, it never stopped and the point is it won't until it all goes back to the way it used to be.
What is "in it" for the non-queer gamers is realizing they aren't the center of the fucking universe. That they can show their support for something that isn't explicitly for them and leave homophobic assholes with no wonderful jungle of slightly less homophobic assholes to hide behind. But no the second it costs you anything suddenly it's the end of the fucking world. People want to feel all nice and accepting and open minded but they never want it to actually inconvenience them.
By all means keep on harping your one fucking studio you hate. I hope it keeps you warm.
Sure, I was the one doing that. Whatever makes you sleep better.
And you proceed to describe what would benefit queer people, if they managed to keep non-queer gamers on their side or at least neutral. Which just proves my point.
Some people don't want to be inconvenienced at all, most people don't want to be inconvenienced for no good reason. There is a big difference.
Yes, what you are doing now seems to be working great. Best of luck with that.