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[-] IrateAnteater@sh.itjust.works 162 points 3 weeks ago

Am I the only one who doesn't find awkwardness entertaining?

[-] Ahrotahntee@lemmy.ca 122 points 3 weeks ago

It’s not just you. Second hand embarrassment is just as bad as first hand embarrassment for me.

It’s a wildly unpopular take, but it’s the reason I can’t watch most of Steve Carell’s stuff, including the office.

[-] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 22 points 3 weeks ago

Agreed. I like a few Office episodes, but I never really got into it. I'm also not a fan of self-deprecating humor, despite making a lot of self-deprecating jokes myself.

We exist, but I think we're in the minority.

[-] tacosanonymous@lemm.ee 13 points 3 weeks ago

I think I just found my tribe.

[-] noodlejetski@lemm.ee 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I watched all of The Office, but I had to keep actively reminding myself that those situations aren't real and that they're paid actors who are expecting everything that's happening, in order not to wince my face inside out.

[-] LGTM@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 3 weeks ago

Seconded, second-hand embarrasment makes me want to jump at the TV

[-] yournamehere@lemm.ee 2 points 3 weeks ago
[-] Boozilla@sh.itjust.works 35 points 3 weeks ago

I don't like it, either. And I'm not a fan of the "obsessed with sex while shaming other people for being obsessed with sex" vibe of shit like this.

[-] ech@lemm.ee 35 points 3 weeks ago

Shaming scumbags for harassing people is always OK.

[-] Boozilla@sh.itjust.works 12 points 3 weeks ago

Wanting to watch stuff like that is weird.

[-] ech@lemm.ee 7 points 3 weeks ago

I don't, but conflating it with sex shaming isn't cool.

[-] Boozilla@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago

Did you upvote the post?

[-] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago
[-] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 weeks ago

I assume the moms would go on the show willingly and accept the shame that comes with it

[-] bane_killgrind@slrpnk.net 5 points 3 weeks ago

Mom's not going to wind up on a gameshow stage without being on board with the dunking

[-] ace_of_based@sh.itjust.works 14 points 3 weeks ago

Nah, i feel ya. I actually get empathetic physical reactions to seeing on-screen awkwardness

[-] whostosay@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

It's not art if you don't feel anything

[-] ace_of_based@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago

Oh i don't mean to say they aren't good, just not good for this cat.

[-] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 14 points 3 weeks ago

Not the only one, this is why I find sitcoms especially more or less completely unwatchable

[-] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago

Yup, haven't watched a sitcom in many years.

I used to love sitcoms (Seinfeld, King of Queens, IT Crowd, etc), but I guess it's just not what I'm looking for anymore. If I want comedy, I usually go with stand-up these days.

[-] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

It's called Empathy and seems to be in short supply among TV execs.

[-] madjo@feddit.nl 5 points 3 weeks ago

Call me overly optimistic, but I would hope that such a program would stop men from doing such creepy behaviour.

[-] P0rkduck@lemm.ee 6 points 3 weeks ago

Call me overly pessimistic, but I would think that such a program would encourage men to make dms even creepier.

[-] Croquette@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago

I don't think they need that to make it even more disgusting.

[-] animephantasm 4 points 3 weeks ago

I am the same way. My husband loves I Think You Should Leave. I cannot stand how horrible and awkward it is. Like its not just not funny it's actively uncomfortable to watch. Which makes it even funnier to him >.>

[-] sfbing@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

I agree, but this wouldn't be about awkward -- it would be vengeance. Just rewards. Assholes getting their due.

[-] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I find it more entertaining if it's fake, like with the office. I dislike real-world awkwardness if it was at the level those shows take it.

Random awkwardness can be fine, but like the example OP gave would be so cringey I couldn't watch lol.

Reality TV gets to that point, so I never watch lol

[-] Abnorc@lemm.ee 2 points 3 weeks ago

I watched the first episode of The Office (UK), and the awkwardness was too much for me. I'll probably give it a second shot eventually though.

[-] Lightor@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

This right here.

"Real" awkwardness is usually coming at someone's expense. I don't enjoy that. The same way true sadness is usually at someone's expense.

But if it's part of a story, fine. I'll watch a sad movie or a show that has awkward moments. Those very real feelings explored in a fun way that hurts no one can be a good time. Just like no one really enjoys being genuinely scared, but a scary movie can trigger that emotion in a safe and fun way.

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Awkwardness is incredibly cheap to film and turn around into content. Less that you find it entertaining and more that you'll fixate on it as a clip in a long line of similar looking content. HBO / Discovery Channel love this kind of low-rent reality TV, because it gets people into watching the first episode purely on shock value. Also great for getting the name recognition of the show up among the critically lucrative "I'm too mature for cartoons but not mature enough to watch normal TV" 13-21 demographic.

Literally the only thing that matters is whether your cursor hovers over it or your scroll pauses for a second as you pass over it. The Algorithm will flag this as "We have your attention" and feed you an increasing quantity of the slop until you give in or you stop using whatever media service is delivering it.

[-] ramble81@lemm.ee 2 points 3 weeks ago

So not a fan of “To catch a predator” either?

[-] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 2 points 3 weeks ago

I can't stand it.

I like to think it's because I'm empathetic.

[-] baines@lemmy.cafe 1 points 3 weeks ago
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