[-] interrobang 4 points 15 hours ago

Beautiful kitties! Also I have this rug and it fucking rocks

[-] interrobang 8 points 2 days ago

I've been considering an Edward Gorey tattoo and I take this as a sign. It's meant to be.

[-] interrobang 68 points 1 week ago

I fix software on these things! No one ever quite gets what I do for work, it's nice to run across in the wild.

I feel seen lol

[-] interrobang 51 points 3 weeks ago

Do super soft yoga in the morning.

When i tell people i do yoga every day before work, they think its MUCH HARDER than it is. I get up, drink a whole glass of water, and sit on my mat. If its cold, i use a space heater. I put on an easy yoga video on YouTube (i love Yoga with Adrienne) and i only do the floor parts lol.

I am in such better shape, i have more energy, I've lost weight, my posture & balance are better, and i can self-regulate my emotions a thousand times easier. I am so, so much happier with this simple lil 20mins starting my day.

[-] interrobang 33 points 3 months ago

Damn right, im slutty with all the genders now

[-] interrobang 39 points 3 months ago

Stupid compulsive heteronormativity, Gadget should have been my bi-awakening but noooooo i probably just like fixing things :/

[-] interrobang 68 points 6 months ago

When people around me complain about being worn out, i cheerfully remind them that we're about the only critters that don't just fucking REST when we're TIRED.

Why the FUCK is it normal to down stimulants 'like an adult' instead of napping?

I'm narcoleptic, and I've been defending my need for sleep my whole life- but mostly, its me reminding people that I nap when my body feels fatigued, like every other mammal I'm aware of, and perhaps I'm not the unusual one.

[-] interrobang 89 points 7 months ago

I've been halfheartedly saying I'm going to start a religion based on ads being bad for one's soul. It makes more sense every day.

[-] interrobang 65 points 8 months ago

fundie

victimized as a child

That venn diagram is a circle.

[-] interrobang 49 points 8 months ago

In my experience as AFAB with a more monotone, less femme voice, I got 'you sound bossy' 'you sound like a bitch' or just ignored until I 'asked nicely' which meant 'sound subservient'.

It has caused me so much trouble in sounding authoritative, because I always had to be high pitched to be heard, but deep pitched to actually be listened to.

[-] interrobang 49 points 8 months ago

He's always been a spoiled heir with massive wealth from apartheid and blood gems

How good could his personality ever have been, truly

[-] interrobang 31 points 8 months ago

I'm nonbinary, married to a trans woman. Every time I lean into my more masc presenting side, part of me is sad that we don't appear MORE queer, and part of me wonders if I'm subconsciously wanting to pass as a straight couple. Isn't identity a fuckin trip?

The way I see it, people have been putting us in boxes our whole lives.

Straight afab didn't fit me, bisexual kinda does, lesbian was better, now trans nonbinary omnisexual is me, lol.

Language is imperfect. All we can do is use that imperfect language to tell each other about our real selves, and anyone giving you shit for that is really missing the point... We're queer because we looked at our assigned boxes and said "nope" 💜

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