Hi all! I wanted to open the floor for a discussion that's been on my mind lately & perhaps hear from others who are also curious about this problem
I think in online trans communities traditionally there has been a social barrier (moderation) but not a technical barrier (hosting/admin/etc).
What that means is that most communities have been run by one or two very burnt out moderators who stepped up to solve a social issue and don't know how to deal with the more technical side. This has worked—just barely—so far.
However I think in the long run this won't be sustainable. A community no longer needs someone to overcome the social barrier but now also the technical barrier AND explain to those solving the social barrier stuff why it's trustworthy. So we need to come up with ways to support them.
I think what @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone is doing here is an invaluable piece of that puzzle. It gives those leaders a spot to land if they have nobody able to help them with self-hosting. But it's also scary for some communities, they don't know who to trust, and would benefit from a more tech-savvy trusted member in their group feeling empowered to learn, maybe set up a server themselves, evangelize a bit, offer reassurance they're committed to ensuring if blahaj goes down the community won't be screwed.
Something else I've noticed is that most communities do not have self-hosted landing pages either. Like a website that their community members can bookmark in case their community goes dark, where the admins can post information about where to meet up online next time. What I've been saying as a message is "yes most members won't bother bookmarking it, but a few will, and those users will be conscientious members who are more likely to spread the word so you limit your losses."
I think it could perhaps be a good project to work on, say, a template for a self-hosted page with a whole bunch of trans self-hosted resources, trans fediverse communities, landing pages for other communities, etc. collated so a community admin can copy-paste. It might encourage more of their members to bookmark it and begin using those resources casually. Of course, reaching out to the communities you are apart of outside the fediverse and offering to help sort out hosting a landing page is also a great asset especially if you're trusted/respected by the mods of those communities.
Anyway, these are all just thoughts at the moment, please feel free to chime in!
I also think the point here is considerably more nuanced than non-passing=bad.
I read it as a critique of how trans people are stereotyped as non-passing. The fact of the matter is, a lot of us do pass and go about our daily lives, and the average cis person doesn't even realize. We assimilate more often than most would admit.
So while I don't think there should be moral value to passing per se, I also think it's pretty fucked up the way we're all sort of stereotyped as being the most visible until proven otherwise...