[-] atheqtpie 1 points 3 hours ago

I didn’t try yet 😭 Maybe I should though

[-] atheqtpie 2 points 7 hours ago

Genderfluid trans guy here, I see a lot of my kid self in this. As a kid, I didn’t feel a specific gender or have the words to express that, but I had feelings. I’ve been told “you’re a girl and/so you must do XYZ” but some days, I wanted to be seen as a boy too. I wanted to wear baggy men’s clothes and cut my hair. Some days, I don’t feel like either gender. After all, I’m just me. And you’re just you.

Also, I’d agree with another commenter I saw that cis people don’t usually question being cis. I won’t label you, though, that’s for you to decide but I’d say you do fit under the trans umbrella

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I wanna see how it would taste if I "masked the flavor" but anyway...

[-] atheqtpie 11 points 4 days ago

Is PieFed Reddit too?

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What Fediverse software would I like if I previously was a fan of TikTok and Facebook? Friendica perhaps? What else?

[-] atheqtpie 1 points 6 days ago
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voteplace.freeflarum.com is the site. I wish Flarum had an ActivityPub extension because I wanted to run a free forum without all the money involved 😅 (I’m a cheapskate)

If I get the money I could maybe try WordPress, I dunno

[-] atheqtpie 2 points 6 days ago

You're not crazy, it's real

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I believe I found it in the first movie where Fester is asleep and Thing is on him and Gomez is staring down at them and takes Thing off him and Fester wakes up.

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My friend and I vividly remember a scene with Gomez/Gomez and Morticia waiting for Fester to wake up and staring over him while he sleeps. Gomez monologues to himself. Does this happen in the movie, Addams Family fans? Or did our brains make this up?

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My friend and I vividly remember a scene with Gomez/Gomez and Morticia waiting for Fester to wake up and staring over him while he sleeps. Gomez monologues to himself. Does this happen in the movie, Addams Family fans? Or did our brains make this up?

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crosspostato da: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/31956758

"Dere types" are like tsundere, yandere, etc.

Catherine - Has a cat theme but isn't literally a cat. She is treated like a cat and a tool by the antagonists that traumatized her. At first, she acts sweet and kind with a very disturbed, traumatized interior and acts distrustful to Belle (who has a black cat motif) but later warms up to Belle.

Belle - Belle's exterior is like a black cat -- shy and aloof. She, too, acts cautious and distrustful to Catherine, but ends up dating her.

Dominique - Dominique, at first, seems like a friendly and shy girl. She is very patient and kind, and appears as “one of the good ones” to Catherine after Natasha’s mistreatment of her. However, Dominique is actually best friends with Natasha, and is very violent. She screams at Catherine, insults her, and says she just wants Catherine to “shut up and die”.

Natasha - Natasha is one of the “owners” of Catherine, who she decides to treat as a “pet” because she reminds her of a cat (hence the name CATherine). Natasha and her friends invite Catherine into the friend group and they all live together, but Catherine is treated badly there and Natasha makes a plan to kill Catherine. She is very fake and manipulative, and at first is very sweet, ladylike, and kind, before revealing it to be a facade.

Nora - Nora has a bear theme. At first, like a bear, she is rather violent and plans to kill her love interest. However, she begins to show a dere side after warming up to her and no longer wants to violently attack her.

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"Dere types" are like tsundere, yandere, etc.

Catherine - Has a cat theme but isn't literally a cat. She is treated like a cat and a tool by the antagonists that traumatized her. At first, she acts sweet and kind with a very disturbed, traumatized interior and acts distrustful to Belle (who has a black cat motif) but later warms up to Belle.

Belle - Belle's exterior is like a black cat -- shy and aloof. She, too, acts cautious and distrustful to Catherine, but ends up dating her before breaking up with her after realizing she thought she was in love, but never was. (They both find someone later).

Dominique - Dominique, at first, seems like a friendly and shy girl. She is very patient and kind, and appears as “one of the good ones” to Catherine after Natasha’s mistreatment of her. However, Dominique is actually best friends with Natasha, and is very violent. She screams at Catherine, insults her, and says she just wants Catherine to “shut up and die”.

Natasha - Natasha is one of the “owners” of Catherine, who she decides to treat as a “pet” because she reminds her of a cat (hence the name CATherine). Natasha and her friends invite Catherine into the friend group and they all live together, but Catherine is treated badly there and Natasha makes a plan to kill Catherine. She is very fake and manipulative, and at first is very sweet, ladylike, and kind, before revealing it to be a facade.

Nora - Nora has a bear theme. At first, like a bear, she is rather violent and plans to kill her love interest. However, she begins to show a dere side after warming up to her and no longer wants to violently attack her.

[-] atheqtpie 13 points 2 weeks ago

ahhh, ok. i'm definitely omni then.

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All I know is that I love anyone (with a preference for women) regardless of gender. I would say gender does matter to me since I prefer women, but I would love anyone regardless, and would gladly date women, men, and everyone in-between. not only this, but if my love transitioned, I would still love them.

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Belle, age 16, throws away the heart of Catherine, age 15. She didn't really love Catherine, not really, so she had to string along Catherine like a doll so as not to upset her. I suppose, in a way, it seemed like a different kind of love, the way she didn't want to upset her.

Catherine gave and gave, and Belle sat, taking it all and forcing herself to give when she had barely anything. Belle, age 36, calls Catherine one day, her old friend from high school. She's finally ready to tell her she misses her and loves her, all those sweet words she didn't want to say 20 years prior. And yet Catherine said "I moved on, Belle. Why can't you?"

[-] atheqtpie 12 points 2 weeks ago

yes, you are TA. You are absolutely leading her on in this case and your shrugging isn't gonna help anything. It's just gonna make her upset. You gotta communicate with people.

[-] atheqtpie 23 points 2 weeks ago

Not overreacting, it could be a red flag. I would say your feelings and thoughts definitely are valid, but give her the benefit of the doubt and also ask what's going on, don't make false accusations. Break up with her if she turns out to be bullying your friend and/or making you choose between her or him as an ultimatum.

[-] atheqtpie 20 points 2 weeks ago

I think she did break up with you. Sorry to hear, man. I think you should take a break from Lemmy and breathe. Please, going forward, respect her boundaries and don't pry further if she sent a goodbye message.

[-] atheqtpie 13 points 2 weeks ago

Pretending to like someone, I think

[-] atheqtpie 16 points 2 weeks ago

It's cute that you're already feeling the "honeymoon" feelings, but I think you should talk to her and go at her pace so she feels comfortable too. If you're feeling bummed, try self-care first and don't feel pressured too much to be super attached. Maybe set goals and keep it consensual, like hand holding, then hugging, etc.

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