[-] atheqtpie 1 points 11 minutes ago

I think they could be a combination of tsundere and yandere.

[-] atheqtpie 4 points 23 hours ago

Sounds like she's not that into you but I can't say for sure

[-] atheqtpie 11 points 1 day ago

She has also posted many times about playing video games instead of talking to him and not even thinking about him.

[-] atheqtpie 24 points 1 day ago

Sounds like you got what you wished for...

[-] atheqtpie 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Had a partner who didn’t want to go out. I think she’s just not that into you but doesn’t wanna be rude. this is speculation though.

[-] atheqtpie 6 points 3 days ago

Not diagnosing, but if Ivy's autistic (I'm not an expert, though I myself am autistic), it could be very hard for her to talk about something else. I'm not necessarily saying it is hard for her or that she is autistic, as you just said she is neurodivergent but not exactly what condition she has, but I know that with me, if I'm really hyperfixated on something, it can be very hard for me to find other interests or talk about anything else. If it's watching a show, I will often watch it for long periods of time. If it's gaming, I will game for long periods of time.

It might be genuinely hard for her to do and talk about anything else and she might not have an interest in your topics not out of rudeness or hatred for you. I think she still loves you, it's just it could be hard for her. Of course, this is just speculation based on my own experiences. The same could apply for neurodivergent people in general, not just autistic, though.

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667!!!(from Roblox)

[-] atheqtpie 2 points 5 days ago

I'm 17 almost 18, it's nice to see more younger people. Stay safe, though!

[-] atheqtpie 2 points 5 days ago

NTA, it sounds like a misunderstanding. Worst case scenario is that she's being dramatic and wasn't worth it as a girlfriend anyway.

[-] atheqtpie 3 points 5 days ago

Ok, well I definitely exercise (sometimes), have a lot of friends who I text though I never go out anywhere, and I try to do other things as well, so I would say I'm not addicted. TYSM :)

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submitted 5 days ago by atheqtpie to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

So, lately I've been seeing some posts on gaming and I've been wondering. I've been playing Roblox for an hour and I plan to hit my usual time of 4-5 hours. I do it to pass the time.

[-] atheqtpie 2 points 6 days ago
[-] atheqtpie 3 points 6 days ago

No offense, but if you're that absorbed with video games, are you really cut out for dating? I still give my boyfriend and girlfriend (open relationship) my time and attention even if I do play games with the buddies for hours (5 hours LOL).

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It's been five months for me, since the day after I graduated.

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I've been dating my girlfriend since 2023 and I love her so much! <3 I recently started dating my boyfriend and I'm gonna possibly get him a binder because he himself can't get one due to his family.

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Sometimes (self.ftm)
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Sometimes I go by they,

and also sometimes he

and also sometimes she

but also always me

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I do, a sister. She just turned 15 last month :)

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We’re both FtM and we’re soooo cool!!! He actually asked me out and I said yes, making sure it was okay with my girlfriend first!

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I grew up around older adults for most of my life, in a very "patriotic" community. In fact, my mom used to be centrist and my dad, right-of-center.

I was a cisgender heterosexual girl. Before I myself came out as pan, I really had the mindset of "LGBTQ+ people don't deserve representation". The thing is, I didn't really care what people did, but I didn't think it had to be announced everywhere. I didn't think representation was necessary, and I was kind of ignorant to the injustice LGBTQ+ people face. I thought "Oh, they already have rights, gay marriage has already been legalized, why do they care so much?"

I doubted climate change.

Keep in mind that my grandparents are part-Italian. My grandpa was half-Italian and came from Northern Italy, so I thought just because my grandpa came here legally, all immigrants could afford to do that.

Well, after a while, I started to become friends with other queer and trans people, and it opened my eyes to a new way of thinking. I no longer supported Trump. I started respecting other people more and later found my identity along the way as a genderfluid, left-leaning transmasc person.

I changed quite early in life, thankfully. I changed at age 13, which is better than being like 73, but at least it's a change either way.

I thought being patriotic didn't mean to make America actually better for people, but to just defend everything it did and everything Trump did. I even wore MAGA merch, and I realize how stupid that was now, LMAO.

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crosspostato da: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/32668848

I don't even know why she did this, maybe she really did misinterpret or maybe she made this up for whatever reason. I have dealt with some really interesting teachers in middle school and in sophomore year.

This teacher either left or got fired, but the bell rang. I (skipped kindergarten, was 14 years old) was talking about watching a movie with my friend.

All of a sudden, the teacher told me to come see her before we walked to the buses.

She said she heard me say that I was going to "talk to my 19-year-old boyfriend Russell" and that she was worried about me.

She then said she looked through my phone, as I left my backpack in the special education room, and she said she saw a contact named "Russell" (I do not have a contact named that).

She then called my parents and my aunt and uncle found out because my dad told them.

My aunt never really liked me, but she wouldn't stop talking about how the teacher never lies and that I probably do have a 19-year-old boyfriend.

I never spoke to any 19-year-olds named Russell, or any 19-year-olds at that, or any Russells, let alone date any.

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I don't even know why she did this, maybe she really did misinterpret or maybe she made this up for whatever reason. I have dealt with some really interesting teachers in middle school and in sophomore year.

This teacher either left or got fired, but the bell rang. I (skipped kindergarten, was 14 years old) was talking about watching a movie with my friend.

All of a sudden, the teacher told me to come see her before we walked to the buses.

She said she heard me say that I was going to "talk to my 19-year-old boyfriend Russell" and that she was worried about me.

She then said she looked through my phone, as I left my backpack in the special education room, and she said she saw a contact named "Russell" (I do not have a contact named that).

She then called my parents and my aunt and uncle found out because my dad told them.

My aunt never really liked me, but she wouldn't stop talking about how the teacher never lies and that I probably do have a 19-year-old boyfriend.

I never spoke to any 19-year-olds named Russell, or any 19-year-olds at that, or any Russells, let alone date any.

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In my senior year, before I came out as trans, I took Spanish class. I was embarrassed, so I said “Estoy embarazada” which means “I’m pregnant”, NOT “I’m embarrassed”.

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[-] atheqtpie 23 points 1 month ago

Not overreacting, it could be a red flag. I would say your feelings and thoughts definitely are valid, but give her the benefit of the doubt and also ask what's going on, don't make false accusations. Break up with her if she turns out to be bullying your friend and/or making you choose between her or him as an ultimatum.

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