[-] Chubbypunk@troet.cafe 1 points 1 day ago

@strawberry_enjoyer42 and thanks for this quiet explain 💜

[-] Chubbypunk@troet.cafe 2 points 1 day ago

@strawberry_enjoyer42

Okay. Thanks - i understand now, where the mistake comes probably from.

As I said before- I‘m not native english-speaking.

In my area „femme“ seems to be used mor as opposite of „butch“. So i don‘t know „transfemme“ this way - it was always „transwoman“, sometimes „transgirl“, never „transfemme“.

Sorry for this.

[-] Chubbypunk@troet.cafe 1 points 1 day ago

@Quokka

There was a irritation and wrong connection in my brain.
Never was ment that way. Pls read all, i excused.

[-] Chubbypunk@troet.cafe 1 points 1 day ago

@strawberry_enjoyer42 @PurpleFanatic ok, yes, got it.
There was still a wrong connection in my head.
Hope I dod not triggered you. Sorry.

[-] Chubbypunk@troet.cafe 0 points 1 day ago

@PurpleFanatic

2/2

…I‘m AFAB born in a very binary world & was a long time interpreted as butch. With 50(!) i realized that there are other options & found out, that I’m nonbinary trans, still like wearing boys cloth, but I‘m also okay with feminine ones. The prob was always the female body & what in ppls heads happends because of it.
My sexuality?
I‘ll find out

Or are you a trans woman wearing man‘s cloth - so it would be opposite. :)

[-] Chubbypunk@troet.cafe 3 points 1 day ago

@PurpleFanatic

I‘m not shure, if i‘m fitting in your question or how good i‘m fitting.

I‘m a bit irritated about your wording „butch transfemmes“ but it can also be a thing with my not nativ semi-good english.

I understand „Butch“ as mostly lesbian but always AFAB who feels good in male-cloth and „transfemme“ as AMAB with opposite preferences.
….
1/2

Chubbypunk

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