Blåhaj

For pre-op http://fuckingtranswomen.org/ is generally what is recommended.

Unfortunately she passed away before writing the post-op version.

Yes, it took me maybe 6-12 months after I was out to stop doing it.

Still happens rarely, usually for phrases that are gendered that I'd not be using often.

Yes basically, it's also less complex. Due to this there's more research data to support it for under 18s than genital surgery.

See the section "Consideration of ages for gender-affirming medical and surgical treatment for adolescents" in WPATH v8 which covers this in depth.

For those looking, https://ko-fi.com/blahajzone is in the server description.

There's also a mispaste of that under the "Empathy" header of that description.

This is called the "bus rule" around here, you don't sit beside someone if there's a still a set of seats you can have to yourself.

I'd be more worried if they did sit beside you, as that'd be considered a bit creepy.

In my experience it is still possible, and you can even get a bit more control as to what you hyperfocus on.

https://diyhrt.wiki/transfem is one good resource you should read.

I'd recommend finding local trans groups to help you do so safely (e.g. knowing the reputable suppliers, injection training, how to get blood tests).

My thoughts on this Blåhaj can be found in my profile photo.

All Blåhaj are valid.

The smolhaj tend to be a bit better stuffed, though the 2nd 100cm I got was also better in that regard.

Any thoughts maybe I should contemplate to try to get an answer for myself?

I would suggest not focusing on labels, but rather actions. Labels are tools, not boxes.

Do you want to dress differently? Try different a name or pronouns? Take HRT? How does thinking about these questions make you feel?

https://genderdysphoria.fyi/ may also be useful. I'd also suggest looking up the term "gender envy".

Laser is one way, and it sounds like your hair is the right colour for it.