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See title.

I'm clean, don't scream or stare, I stay reading my phone...it's just damned weird.

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[-] aaron_griffin@lemmy.world 31 points 2 years ago

Public seating follows the same rules as urinals.

[-] nei7jc@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Except less people piss on them

[-] aeternum@kbin.social 3 points 2 years ago
[-] funkajunk@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago
[-] aaron_griffin@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Depends on the city

[-] BlueSharkEnjoyer 27 points 2 years ago

This is called the "bus rule" around here, you don't sit beside someone if there's a still a set of seats you can have to yourself.

I'd be more worried if they did sit beside you, as that'd be considered a bit creepy.

[-] foo@lemmy.ca 22 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Are there other empty groups of seats? I find people generally spread out to avoid others.

It's certainly something I do. I'll sit next to someone (choosing the least talkative looking people first) only if there is no other choice.

[-] Uphillbothways@lemmy.world 17 points 2 years ago

Do you sit near others, even within a few seats, or generally as separate as possible? Most people in my experience sit away from others. If I see someone sitting near/engaging with strangers I generally assume some mixture of mental illness or ill intentions/scammy behavior.

[-] housepanther@lemmy.goblackcat.com 12 points 2 years ago

I do not think it is you at all. I am on the autism spectrum myself and I purposely sit away from others because being boxed in by other people causes me to be way overstimulated. I don't believe it is intended to be a slight against you, rather it's just people's preferences.

[-] makairo@kbin.social 12 points 2 years ago

People leave a space between them and someone else to have some personal space and respect other’s personal space

[-] Candelestine@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

Are you heavy? That can be a reason, as bigger people simply take up more seating space.

[-] SternburgExport@feddit.de 11 points 2 years ago

That's kinda normal in my experience. People leave 1-3 seats between each other if the train is empty.

[-] nyakojiru@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 years ago

Happens the same to me. I learned to give a single f. I even find it a bliss, some people smell bad, are with the headphones killing their eardrums, pushing me because their are too big, farting, whatever… is not a pleasant experience one would want to do on purpose.

[-] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago
[-] isVeryLoud@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 years ago

Just the two tear drops and a four legged plus sign :)

[-] MadgePickles@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago

I prefer to sit alone if possible

[-] can@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Do you play loud music?

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