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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

I'm just a bi guy. I found out pretty recently

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[-] Griseowulfin@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

I’m a gay dude. \o/

[-] warrier120@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

Bi. The bi-cycle fucks with me a lot though.

[-] xangria@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago
[-] woteorin@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

Pan as hell no matter what my imposter syndrome tells me!

[-] vraylle@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago
[-] sorrowl 6 points 2 years ago
[-] MistressRemilia@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago
[-] IcedCoffeeBitch@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

Me too! ❤️

[-] Halvdan@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 years ago

Normally straight-ish, but currently I would say indifferent due to the meds I'm on.

[-] DearAll@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Hello fellow bi person

[-] raresbears@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago

Ace and nonaro (don't really label it any further personally)

[-] wispi@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Super duper pansexual.

[-] IcedCoffeeBitch@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Lesbian here :3

[-] Cattypat 6 points 2 years ago

Bi, but only been in het relationships. Dudes I know just are all assholes.

[-] AwkwardChuckle@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Gay trans man here!

[-] StrahdVonZarovich@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Although I can see the uses in making up terms to define who you're attracted to, I dont like the idea of putting yourself in a box. Ive had straight friends get really confused when they find themselves attracted to the same sex, and gay friends get really confused when they find themselves attracted to the opposite sex. When you "join" a sexuality you dont sign a contract or anything. A while ago I figured out I was bisexual. It was pretty great for a while, cause I was able to figure myself out and feel more free because of it. I didnt feel guilty for having certain thoughts. However, eventually I started to have some problems with the label itself. In this day and age, what even is a man or a woman? Ive found myself being attracted to people that dont identify as either gender. And isnt gender supposed to be a societal construct? In that case, why do we care so much about it in the case of define sexual identities? Im no philosopher or social scientist, so I may just be talking out of my own ass here so forgive my ignorance. Nowadays whenever some asks me my sexuality (which by the way is a very weird thing to ask people you just met in real life) I always say "on a case by case basis".

[-] pickles 5 points 2 years ago

Panromantic ace, checking in. Welcome!

[-] themadcodger@kbin.social 5 points 2 years ago
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[-] socialgaff@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

Also a bi guy! Hi :)

[-] ryuko@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago
[-] pushka@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

A gay dude ✨

[-] thilo@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

Honest question: Why do you feel the need to categorize your sexuality? I myself am 40 years old and still don't know which category I fit in. What need/itch do you fill by naming this part of your persona?

[-] arthur@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

Pan/Bi but strait passing... Mostly.

[-] BobQuasit@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

Demi cis. I'm tempted to add "doomed", but I won't.

[-] Skimmer5728@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago
[-] Gormadt@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

Polyamorous biromantic demisexual

to answer the age old question, "da fuck is that?"

I'm into being in relationships with multiple people of multiple genders and I've got to really get to know someone before any sexual attraction starts.

Most of the time when people ask I just answer with Bi as the people asking are usually not interested in the nitty gritty details.

[-] crmsnbleyd@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 years ago
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