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[-] Drunemeton@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago

For the staff at Lemmy & Mastodon World’s for keeping the social media platforms I use the most Ad Free!

🫶🏻

[-] ensignrick@startrek.website 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

For Lemmy. Moving from the alien site to here has been fantastic.

[-] Jay@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

I wanted to say that too. Of course, family is great too, but I'm always grateful for that. Today it's Lemmy's turn.

[-] Caligvla@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 1 year ago

Brazil commemorates Thanksgiving? In what bizarro world? I've never met a single person here who ever did that, in fact the vast majority of people have absolutely no clue what Thanksgiving is or that it even exists.

The author is just pulling this shit out of their asses lol.

[-] lupec@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

I was going to say lol, I'd struggle to find anyone who is even aware of it in real life

[-] Thisfox@sopuli.xyz 7 points 1 year ago

It is a wishful-thinking style article on the web where some yank once met some yank who lived in Brazil and thus decided from this that every person in Brazil celebrated the USian holiday. Same in Japan, who definitely do not celebrate thanksgiving any more than Brazil does. But the yanks all think the world revolves around them.

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[-] dirkgentle@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

It may be a USA Brazilian thing, the diaspora is quite large.

[-] Caligvla@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Maybe, but that's like 0.1% of the population, there aren't many American communities in Brazil. Maybe it's a thing in Americana (a town founded by ex-confederates, I shit you not), but otherwise...

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago

This article in Wikipedia mentions Brazil under "Observance." Apparently there are a couple of Brazilian laws that establish Thanksgiving as a holiday and set its date as the fourth Thursday in November.

So maybe edit Wikipedia? Note to them that it isn't known or celebrated?

I really wish I hadn't mentioned Brazil or Japan. I was just interested in what people were thankful for. I'm truly sorry if I offended Brazilian or Japanese people.

[-] lordxakio@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Didn’t a lot of people (confederate) move to South America, mostly Mexico, Brazil, and Argentina after the civil war?

[-] Caligvla@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 year ago

6000 to Brazil more especifically, somewhat insignificant number if you ask me considering the number of germans, italians, japanese and arabs that immigrated here.

[-] lordxakio@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I meant in the context of celebrating thanksgiving.

[-] Caligvla@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I know, 6000 people mostly concetrated in the town of Americana with roughly 250k citizens (not all American descendants obviously), so if there's a place that might celebrate Thanksgiving in Brazil, it's there.

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[-] firecat@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago

No one in Japan celebrating a fake holiday you Americans came up with.

It’s called Labor Thanksgiving Day (kinro kansha no hi):
A national holiday for honoring labour.

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 year ago

I mean, all holidays are kind of fake. They aren't self-evident, even kinro kansha no hi.

But happy Kinro Kansha No Hi!

[-] firecat@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

Well no, the Americans holidays are 99% fake. Thanksgiving wasn’t a thing until presidents proclaimed it.

Christmas is fake because 1) the religious conflict with April and 2) Corporate wanting people to buy stuff during December.

Valentine's day is another corporate scam to sell stuff that it soon became a thing in Japan too ( but we added white day).

Halloween is the false narrative name for Allhallowtide and lost the original meaning of respect for the dead.

I don’t know any actual holiday Americans ever created that isn’t a national thing or international event.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

I hate to break it you but all holidays, like the rest of human customs and traditions, are made up by humans.

[-] firecat@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Yes but they were original and had history or something. American? Nothing but profit and cheap propaganda.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Something can have historical significance and also be rampantly commercialized at the same time. These are not mutually exclusive things.

Imagine yourself as a historian from a 1000 years from now. When you look back at the coca cola bottles, the Walmart signs, the oversized trucks all unearthed from the forgotten sands of time, you won't see it and say 'there is no culture or historical significance to be found here'. Instead, you will contemplate on what crises this century was going through that turned so many to overconsumption and yet still feel dead on the inside.

Your so called 'lack of culture' in holidays that are filled with superficial excuses from corporations to spend is history and culture in the making. This isn't an assessment on whether this is good or bad, this is history regardless of what you may think of it. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you realize that maybe Americans are not the homogeneous entity you thought it was. Maybe when you look beyond the glamorous decorations and lavish spending, you will see there are families struggling to feed their 5 five kids and yet still do their best to bring the holiday spirit to the table.

I'm not an American, so I don't have any stakes in this. I've lived in 5 countries, USA included, and I'm tired of people abroad complaining about the lack of culture in the US while gleefully importing American movies, music, franchises, movies, holidays, spending habits, slangs, etc. You can't have it both ways. Either the US doesn't have culture, or it does and it's being exported. Pick one.

[-] firecat@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

That’s the most odd thing anyone said about culture and history of civilization. Events should be fun, it should let future generations learn, it should become better and should bring new ideas.

The American culture gives nothing fun, there’s no generation learning because they block it, it doesn’t become better because things like concerts cost $200 or a walk to the park cost federal money to enter. Zero ideas instead they are killing all ideas including their own like Rock and Roll.

When people say America has no culture, it absolutely does mean they don’t have culture.

[-] xenspidey@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 year ago

Christmas is actually about the mushrooms, Amanita Muscaria to be more precise

[-] lukini@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Juneteenth is a very American holiday. For bad reasons obviously, but still American.

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[-] PeepinGoodArgs@reddthat.com 12 points 1 year ago

I'm thankful for key lime pie. I may not have it as much as I want, but the idea alone of having another bite some day really keeps me going.

[-] ieatmeat@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

I am thankful for being born and living in Europe 🇪🇺

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 year ago

That's looking increasingly like a good choice you made.

[-] NataliePortland@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 year ago

Thankful for my union fighting hours on hours to negotiate a better job for me. The other day they negotiated until 3 am!

[-] spittingimage@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My Pathfinder group, who agree with me that to (fictionally) run screaming at people with a lit black powder bomb in my hands is the right thing to do.

[-] SirStumps@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I'm thankful for my wife and family. Also overcoming my years of struggle with depression.

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago
[-] SirStumps@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

3 years now. Never did I think I was capable of this kind of mental stability. Thankful every day.

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago

I've had months before. I can't even imagine years. So happy for you ❤️

[-] shiveyarbles@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

Thankful for two years cancer free, my son is getting good grades and doing good at soccer and martial arts (the two things I did growing up) and the company I work for is growing massively and work is still interesting.

Cheers

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That's awesome! How great to be able to say all that where a few years ago you must have felt like the world was caving in on you.

So happy for you mate

[-] shiveyarbles@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Thanks yeah for real

[-] arthur@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 year ago

TIL that Brazil has a Thanksgiving day... But we do not celebrate it, and -unfortunately- it's not a holiday.

Anyway, I'm glad of the friendships that I have and had.

[-] sour@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

fun place called fediverse

[-] Zoop@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

I'm thankful for my sweet cat, Ziggy! :) Thanks for asking, OP!

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[-] satan@r.nf 3 points 1 year ago

I'm thankful for all the native americans slaughtered, so we could claim all their land, call them savages and celebrate their genocide.

it's so heartwarming, I can't put into words. 😇

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 year ago

So, have you signed up with some ancestor research company to find out what you and your family are personally responsible for? Which slave names are the results of your great great grandfather's rape? What theft, what oppression, what abuse did your people inflict on others? Do you care?

How many aunts and uncles, brothers and sisters, sons and daughters did your family personally kill, in war or in cold blood? Could you count them all?

Are you committing to seeking out and making good all the past offenses and atrocities of your own personal family, and show us how it ought to be done?

OR - you could accept the past as it is because it won't change, flawed and time-locked as it was, with good examples and bad, but that's what happened. Forgive yourself and your ancestors and mourn for those who were hurt. We absolutely need to accept the truth to learn and grow.

That doesn't mean we have nothing to be thankful for today. I daresay even you might find something to be thankful for if you thought about it, Satan.

[-] laxu@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 year ago

It's been a rough year and I came very close to being furloughed. Managed to get a new client just at the right time and now I'm thriving again. I'm thankful for having frankly a lot of luck over the years which has put me where I am today. I'm not saying hard work wasn't important too, but sheer luck has been helpful too.

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I'm a day late, but I have a lot to be thankful for! My partner, friends, food, home, better mental health, and so much more

[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago

I love to hear about it! I'm so glad you added your comment, I love it!

[-] spez_@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago
[-] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

Oh man, that is so good. So many people living with chronic pain would love one single day of "nothing." Children and others suffering constant abuse would be so grateful for a day of "nothing." In war, what is a cease-fire but some "nothing" for a change?

Thankful for nothing. Yes. Very good 👍

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