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[-] Asnabel@lemm.ee 79 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Remember guys and gals, it's not body shaming when men are on the receiving end!

[-] Lumidaub@feddit.de 35 points 10 months ago

"This person conducts themselves with a confidence that usually comes with physical traits typically considered desirable."

[-] Grayox@lemmy.ml 15 points 10 months ago

Are you implying the term Big Dick Energy is body shaming men?

[-] criitz@reddthat.com 42 points 10 months ago

Yes. It equates body types with positive/negative traits. ie. "Big dick energy" implies "small dick = bad"

[-] Grayox@lemmy.ml 16 points 10 months ago

I could see how the phrase implies that, however this meme subverts that by saying that dick size doesn't matter as much as your energy does. And the meme literally says that small dick energy is bad, not having a small pp.

[-] criitz@reddthat.com 15 points 10 months ago

Small dick energy is bad but not small dicks? How does that make any sense. Think about it.

[-] Grayox@lemmy.ml 7 points 10 months ago

Bruh the only time I've ever used the term BDE is to imply that the size of your pp doesn't matter with this meme. Im sorry its upset you, but i dont really care. Trans men can have BDE without even having a dick. YOU are the one implying that small dicks are bad, not me.

[-] superduperenigma@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Honestly your whole argument is very reminiscent of people in the early 2000s using the word "gay" synonymously with "bad" and insisting it's not only inoffensive to gay people but that anyone who thinks otherwise is the real homophobe.

The whole "big/small dick energy" things is inherently rooted in body shaming for reasons that have already been pointed out. It doesn't matter that you didn't mean it in that way or that you're trying to flip the script by saying your energy doesn't necessarily reflect or corporate to your penis size.

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[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 6 points 10 months ago

Saying small dick energy is just a different way of calling someone out for acting insecure it has nothing to do with the size of their dick.

[-] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 5 points 10 months ago

Insecure like someone with a....?

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 8 points 10 months ago

Insecurity problem

[-] crystal@feddit.de 5 points 10 months ago

doesn't matter as much

[-] JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works 9 points 10 months ago

I think it's analogous to referring to balls the size of wrecking balls or something. I don't know of anyone who thinks bigger physical balls are superior to smaller balls, but the phrase is still common to denote courage. I think big dick energy is not as decoupled from people's biology as big balls, but it's still mostly decoupled in common usage.

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 16 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

It does literally refer to penis size. Hiding it behind the word "energy" is just obfuscation. It reminds me of racist people defending the N word by saying, "there's black people, then there's Ns. Black people are fine, Ns aren't."

You're just kicking the can down the road. It's the exact same idea, phrased differently. You just wanna say "small dick" and get away with it, that's all.

[-] Zehzin@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

MFer did you just compare "small dick energy" to the n word 💀

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 10 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Did you just describe what I did in a reductive way, without even attempting to explain your point? Why should I listen to you?

Try attacking the idea itself: "You’re just kicking the can down the road. It’s the exact same idea, phrased differently."

[-] Zehzin@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

"That's reductive", said the N-word comparer 💀💀

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 5 points 10 months ago

Attack the argument or accept that you're wrong.

"Small dick energy" is just a way to say "small dick" without getting called out for it.

[-] Zehzin@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Begging people to debate you about how saying small dick energy is like dropping hard Rs is the most small dick energy thing I can think of, no thanks

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

See, you still show no evidence you have any clue what I'm saying, so how can I take you seriously? I never said it is "like droping hard Rs". Seriously, get up to speed or get lost.

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[-] Grayox@lemmy.ml 5 points 10 months ago
[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 4 points 10 months ago

Try raising your speech level above 0 before responding.

[-] Grayox@lemmy.ml 6 points 10 months ago

Bruh you just compared using the term BDE to the N word.

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I compared one instance of belittling offence to another instance of it. Keep up.

I even added explicit reasoning afterwards in case you got distracted, but you still couldn't control yourself.

Maybe try responding to my point itself, instead of the analogy that came with it?

You’re just kicking the can down the road. It’s the exact same idea, phrased differently.

[-] Grayox@lemmy.ml 5 points 10 months ago

Lmao you have such debate lord energy, the meme i shared literally says your pp size doesn't matter. The fact that you equated BDE with using the N word shows how out of touch with reality you are.

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Yeah, you say dick size doesn't actually matter, but you're still talking about dick size. The word "energy" is just an excuse, so you can say "small dick" without being called out.

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[-] Omega_Haxors@lemmy.ml 10 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

That's why I prefer 'big ballsack energy' It's something every male can achieve with enough waiting or the right diet.

[-] GreenMario@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago

Fuck off with this shit we're allowed to roast anybody and everyone for any reason. This is what you call "Lib Shit" for being offended over bullshit.

[-] problematicPanther@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

spoken like one with little dick energy.

[-] Zehzin@lemmy.world 25 points 10 months ago

"A specter is haunting Europe, the specter of deez nuts"

[-] mycatiskai@lemmy.one 18 points 10 months ago

Except when a lady friend wants a big dick, then all the big dick energy in the world isn't going to do a lick of good, that's when you have to bring out the lick of good.

[-] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 4 points 10 months ago

This is why I only get with ladies who like men that are the spitting image of Edgar Allen Poe. Never leave em disappointed.

[-] mycatiskai@lemmy.one 3 points 10 months ago

Is that why he grieved for lost Lenore, he couldn't find another who insisted on never more, just enough.

[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 5 points 10 months ago

¿Porque no los dos?

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