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Its never too late ❤️ (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago by brookedSmile to c/trans_joy
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Just a quick post to remind my older girlies that its never too late ❤️

Im 32, struggle a lot with having waited too long or being too late. Its not true! Its never too late to be happy. Its never too late to stop hating yourself. Its never too late, regardless of what other people say or think.

You do this for you and your happiness and noone should take that from you.

I LOVE OUR OVER 30'S OVER 40'S AND BEYOND! It shouldnt be lost on the younger people that trans people didnt make it to those ages historically, and im so happy your here now ❤️❤️

Plus, some of our most gorgeous girls are over 30 and 40 😍😍

Ily all, dont let the bastards grind you down! ❤️❤️❤️

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[-] Nikki 6 points 1 week ago

GO OFF BESTIE!

its never too late, there is still time. you only get one life, live it to the fullest :3

you look great, love the sink mess lmao

[-] brookedSmile 4 points 1 week ago

IM YOUR BESTIE!? WOOOOOT 🥰😂

dont know if you saw, but there was a pretty terrible no good awfule post earlier. This is mostly in response to that lol. It got nuked

Getting compliments from you makes my whole day! Plus i got called ma'am in a store to for first time just 😍🥰😍🥰😍

Tyty your the best ❤️

[-] Nikki 4 points 1 week ago

ye I saw that post, I had a reply drafted and my break ended before I sent it. post was gone by the time I got back to it lol

[-] brookedSmile 2 points 1 week ago

Yeah it got nuked pretty quickly lol

[-] brookedSmile 6 points 1 week ago

Ewww shoulda cropped this picture 😂😂😂

[-] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago

This is an accurate portrayal of a renting woman's bathroom countertop, this is verité.

[-] brookedSmile 5 points 1 week ago

Im all about accuracy 😂

[-] Quokka@quokk.au 2 points 1 week ago

…Renting?

[-] brookedSmile 2 points 1 week ago

Well theyre not wrong, i am a renting leech lol

Wont someone think of the poor landlords?? /s

[-] Quokka@quokk.au 2 points 1 week ago

I bought my own apartment and my bathroom still looks like this.

[-] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

You’re keeping everyone honest.

[-] brookedSmile 6 points 1 week ago

True, although being honest its easier to do makeup and post than it is to clean my bathroom ❤️❤️

[-] hildegarde 5 points 1 week ago

Some people say it can be too late to transition, but they can no longer say it here. Thanks Ada and collaborators!

You look great, but I've seen this outfit at least 3 times. Do you have more??

[-] brookedSmile 2 points 1 week ago

Its different promise!

Just love this button up, thats the only same thing as yesterday

It perfect for when its not too hot and not too cold

Plus it says "tempt me with a good time" on the back ❤️❤️

[-] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Omg! Look at the camera, woman!

[-] brookedSmile 3 points 1 week ago

But i get nervous..

Seriously i have a problem with eye contact and therefore eye contact with myself while posting is extra icky 😂😂

[-] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

It's fine. It's not as bad as my problem with photos (resting terrorist face).

[-] brookedSmile 3 points 1 week ago

Scares the reich wingers tho! ❤️

[-] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

True, but there are also disadvantages to walking around looking like Thea Kaczynski.

[-] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

I started physical transition in my mid 40s. Never too late.

[-] brookedSmile 3 points 1 week ago

Hell yeah ❤️❤️

[-] joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

Hear hear ❤️ it's never too late to feel the best you have ever felt in your life, I am 49 and I felt so good out and about today, it was a blast. I am so proud of all the beautiful 30-40+ years olds we have here too ❤️ Clean up girl 😄 but I can't talk I just did mine for the pictures I took lol

[-] brookedSmile 4 points 1 week ago

To be honest i think it was selfie day, got us a lot more attention, been a couple of shitheels on here since then

[-] joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

Some people just can't stand to see other people being happy and enjoying themselves and loving themselves

[-] brookedSmile 2 points 1 week ago

Its sucks to see really. I genuinely hope Sidal and Hated from the other day both find happiness in their lives. I hope they find peace. ❤️

[-] joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

Yes perhaps I was a little harsh with my post title but I wanted to make a point, I do hope that too

[-] brookedSmile 2 points 1 week ago

You do you! I have this really like zen positivity about things like that. But i also dont mind other feelings about stuff like that, feel what you feel! ❤️

[-] joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I normally do about most things, too, but I do not suffer bullies, but I gotta remember online ones are different. That's a great attitude to have ❤️ and I strive for it, I think I've got to a pretty good place with MOST things ;)

[-] jckwik@discuss.online 2 points 1 week ago

💖

[-] brookedSmile 2 points 1 week ago

❤️❤️

[-] Sunshine@piefed.ca 2 points 1 week ago

A particular amazing digital circus character should’ve seen this lovely post.

[-] Domi 2 points 1 week ago

I woke up this morning crying, thinking of the time I've lost transitioning at 38. It's something I will always feel a deep pain about. The only thing sadder would be waiting any longer. I've never been happier than I am now.

[-] brookedSmile 1 points 1 week ago

Aww girl im sorry. I wont lie those feelings hit and when they do they hit hard. I wish we didnt have to feel that 💔

As they say, the best time to start is yesterday, the second best time is today. Itd be worse if we didnt do it at all. The amount that i hated myself before all this, idk that i woulda survived past my 30's. It was horrible, painful, and just made me not want to live. And i never knew why!!

I thank gaia every day for finding the trans communities, egg_irl, traaaaaaaaans, mtf, trans_joy, all of it

I wouldnt have survived otherwise

Im glad youre here, im sorry you woke crying. I hope you have an absolutely beautiful day and everything you want and more happens today ❤️❤️

[-] Domi 2 points 1 week ago

Thank you sweetie. I'm trying to keep reminding myself that I'm going through puberty again right now and big emotions are a part of it.

So glad we both made it xx

[-] brookedSmile 1 points 1 week ago

Omg girl the emotional swings are crazzzyyy

I cried at a trans person being accepted by family today, wasnt even real, just an animated video

I also cried at a song thats not even sad really the other day 😭

Im a mess lol

Im glad your here tooo ❤️

[-] Domi 2 points 1 week ago

Kindof love being able to cry ngl. It was one of the effects I was most excited for and I really love it. I cry so much now. Mostly happy cries but today was a big sad. I'm through the other side of it now mostly. Night night Brooke (from UK timezone)

[-] brookedSmile 1 points 1 week ago

I love being able to access that part of myself too its wonderful, can get annoying sometimes tho 😂

Nighty night girly sweet dreams! ❤️❤️

this post was submitted on 27 Jul 2026
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