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Please don't expect the community to give you answers to your questions which you then delete right afterwards. Those of us who put time into answering your questions are not doing so just to serve your personal needs, we are here to help build a community knowledge base that others can search and reference.

This has become a chronic issue with Lemmy and its starting to feel like it's a waste of time to answer questions.

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[-] Gonzako@lemmy.world 1 points 1 minute ago

Oh, I thought this was about me since I just asked for file transfer stuff but you're specifically talking about deleting it right after. It happened to me on asklemmy where the user deleted it right after

[-] yuman@programming.dev 1 points 30 minutes ago

I deleted my post here specifically. it was completely useless to anyone else and 0 chance anyone could find any part of it useful.

I've done that a coupla times when I determine that the post itself and the replies provide no value to anyone whatsoever.

I wouldn't think of removing a post otherwise, if I made an error in OP or came off stupid or sumsuch, I'd edit it for posterity; even when it's a pile-on downvote bonanza, I wouldn't think of touching it.

[-] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 hour ago

we need to make a list of usernames who are deleting their posts, regularly or even just twice

[-] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 16 points 4 hours ago

I just want to apologize for being the person who asks questions and then doesn't respond to the comments. I get overwhelmed D: but I'd never delete my post, what's the purpose in that?

[-] Schilling2304@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 hour ago

Someone may have the same question in the future and there will be answers. You not responding is not that bad but it is even better that you do and provide an update to your situation, if you wish.

[-] IsoKiero@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 hour ago

Editing original post and including steps which helped would be great. I don't expect anyone to reply to each an every comment separately, but a summary on what caused the problem and what fixed it would be nice. Specially when someone later finds the post with similar issue.

[-] whatiswrongwithyou@lemmy.ml 17 points 4 hours ago

Op pls delete this post

[-] Decronym@lemmy.decronym.xyz 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 11 minutes ago)

Acronyms, initialisms, abbreviations, contractions, and other phrases which expand to something larger, that I've seen in this thread:

Fewer Letters More Letters
CSAM Child Sexual Abuse Material
DNS Domain Name Service/System
SMTP Simple Mail Transfer Protocol

[Thread #0 for this comm, first seen 5th Jun 2026, 05:30] [FAQ] [Full list] [Contact] [Source code]

[-] Bruhh@lemmy.world 1 points 31 minutes ago
[-] kiol@discuss.online 4 points 3 hours ago

How is building a collective knowledge base possible without gathering the advice of others here?

[-] Mordikan@kbin.earth 17 points 2 hours ago

How can you build a collective knowledge base when you delete your post after receiving an answer? I seriously don't understand why people do that, either. No one knows/cares who you are and there is no reason to feel ashamed for not knowing how something works.

[-] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

tbh, I care to know those who are deleting their posts

[-] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 hour ago

Take a look at the r/jellyfin subreddit which consists of 95% questions on how to access jellyfin remotely.

I think Op wants to avoid that

[-] el_abuelo@programming.dev 4 points 1 hour ago

How does one access jellyfin remotely?

[-] gedaliyah@lemmy.world 19 points 7 hours ago

Yes! This drives me crazy. I will sometimes go back and edit posts to add more info months later.

We have all been in a situation where we are looking for a very specific answer, and the answer only exists in one obscure forum from a decade ago that has the exact info we are looking for.

It's hard enough to ensure lemmy's long-term fidelity without people axing their own content.

[-] goferking0@lemmy.sdf.org 46 points 8 hours ago
[-] mlg@lemmy.world 7 points 1 hour ago

https://lemmy.world/post/39025760

wtf? Half the post is nuked even after being locked. I don't even see how such a small community can be so stuck up about relevancy and purity washing selfhosted as if we all own our own DNS registrars and can do outbound SMTP.

[-] InternetCitizen2@lemmy.world 6 points 2 hours ago

Mod had deleted my posts that I feel were relevant as not relevant.

[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 4 points 2 hours ago

It's a major pet peeve of mind when places get overly zealous about moderating what is on or off topic when the volume of posts doesn't warrant it. Especially when there has already been some discussion on the posts.

[-] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 13 points 4 hours ago

Wow a lot of those mod-deleted posts were very interesting for me

[-] rumba@lemmy.zip 24 points 7 hours ago
[-] goferking0@lemmy.sdf.org 13 points 7 hours ago

Looks like it's hybridsarcasims favorite rule

[-] Zamboni_Driver@lemmy.ca 17 points 4 hours ago

Wow crazy I couldn't imagine that this community gets enough posts to warrant so aggressively enforcing rules about the content.

[-] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 13 points 4 hours ago

Some people think that keeping a community laser focused attracts more readers through quality. It’s an ideal that I respect, but I’ve never really observed that to be true in reality.

If you’re reading this @HybridSarcasm@lemmy.hybridsarcasm.xyz consider this my polite feedback that I completely get what you’re trying to accomplish but you might be working harder than you need to be.

[-] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 8 points 4 hours ago

Exactly, I could understand it on the huge subreddits with one question per minute, but here is so silent...

Plus, as a user, when a mod deletes a post that I took over ten minutes to write, I go "fuck It" and stop contributing altogether (this also includes replying to other posts)

[-] anon_8675309@lemmy.world 19 points 8 hours ago
[-] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 1 points 13 minutes ago

works for deleted comments, but not when the entire post is nuked

[-] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 hour ago

that will help somewhat in the future when lemmy gets its shit together, but since I came to lemmy deleted posts cannot be loaded at all, even though the server still has the comments

[-] merde@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 hours ago

Quote ppl you answer.

indeed

[-] SnotFlickerman 137 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

It doesn't make sense, either. There's no rational reason to delete a thread after the question has been answered.

Even if it wasn't actually a person but was an AI agent asking questions so it can scrape the data from the answers, there's no real utility in deleting the posts after receiving responses. It just seems so weird.

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[-] LurkingLuddite@piefed.social 5 points 7 hours ago

Who's downvoting this?? Ban those moronic leeches. They're either anti-community or have the reading comprehension of a potato, ffs.

[-] lka1988@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Unfortunately, this is nothing new. Forums have been dealing with this for decades. XKCD even made a comic about forum posts going stale.

[-] IratePirate@feddit.org 13 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Not really the same issue. The xkcd is about unsolved or incompletely resolved issues. This Herr is about questions vanishing along with the answers.

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[-] uuj8za@piefed.social 25 points 10 hours ago

dick move.

Which users are doing that so I can block them?

[-] mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Pretty sure lots of the “deleted” posts were actually removed by the mods. Rule 3 seems to be a popular justification for post removal in this community, and it basically outlaws all of the “my server is having this issue, anyone got any ideas” types of posts that OP has cited.

While I agree it’s popular for removing posts, maybe it shouldn’t be. If we want users to organically find Lemmy, one of the best ways to do that is the same way users end up at Reddit: By googling an error code, and finding a five year old “Edit: I figured it out. Here is what I did” post.

Or maybe we just need to make (and properly support) a community that is dedicated to those kinds of posts. If a “my server is broken plz help” post isn’t relevant to /c/selfhosted@lemmy.world, maybe we need to make a /c/SelfHostedSupport to redirect the Rule 3 posts to.

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