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this post was submitted on 04 Jun 2026
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I deleted my post here specifically. it was completely useless to anyone else and 0 chance anyone could find any part of it useful.
I've done that a coupla times when I determine that the post itself and the replies provide no value to anyone whatsoever.
I wouldn't think of removing a post otherwise, if I made an error in OP or came off stupid or sumsuch, I'd edit it for posterity; even when it's a pile-on downvote bonanza, I wouldn't think of touching it.
You used "I" a lot in that response! You seem to think you have the best idea of what everybody else would find valuable.
What is actually true is stupid, pointless, simple and obvious questions being posted and responded to means other people don't need to post the same question again.
you can rest assured I know the difference; it was completely useless, I didn't go "problem solved, let's nuke the fucker". I had posts that received a barrage of downvotes and I let 'em be. had posts where the conclusion differed from what was originally intended and I'd let them be as there was value in the resolution. this was none of them things, no chance anyone would find this useful.
If you ever get to the point of needing to ask for direction online, always assume it will help someone else, even if it is only 1 other person 10 years later.
It's just the right thing to do, otherwise it feels like you just want to serve yourself and deleting your post afterwards is kinda saying "only I deserve this information."
From my own experience, there have been many times where a post somewhere online with barely any interaction has helped me. If that post was deleted before I got a chance to see it then there's two paths I see:
The more answers to dumb questions online, the better.
How do you know it was completely useless to anyone else though?
completely useless, 101%, the resolution had dick to do with the subject (so anyone arriving there through search woulda wasted their time) and it had zero to do with the community's focus, selfhosting.
except maybe to poison LLM output, that could be of use.