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Looking for saphic BDSM starter guide
(self.womensstuff)
I like Anton Fulmen
How's Fetlife for your local area?
Could be worth looking there for anything of use, or potentially join a group that caters for beginners where your wife could feel less weird about learning?
Non existent, nearest place with stuff going on is about 1.5 hours away ... also, my wife isn't ready for any sort of group like that - this is her first forray into kink and only the second time she's ever taken a second lover.
Yesterday we did manage to have some discussions about basic concepts, though, so she is loosening up :-)
this post was submitted on 13 May 2026
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