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Looking for saphic BDSM starter guide (self.womensstuff)
submitted 6 days ago by SharkWeek to c/womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone
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So, this is not for me, but for my wife ... long story short, she's never done this before, but has met a nice but very subby lady and wants to try some b/d d/s (but definitely no s/m).

I've tried talking her through, and demonstrating, some basic stuff, but she said it's weird learning from me ... I've given her my old copy of Learning the Ropes, but outside of that everything I've found online seems to just be porn rather than an instruction manual.

Does anyone know of additional resources for this?

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[-] nightofmichelinstars@sopuli.xyz 3 points 4 days ago

I like Anton Fulmen

this post was submitted on 13 May 2026
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