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[-] pruwybn@discuss.tchncs.de 54 points 3 weeks ago
[-] queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone 14 points 3 weeks ago

Yup. It is currently the time for sleep, and yet here I am.

[-] SharkWeek 30 points 3 weeks ago

Make up stories in my head.

Rub one out.

Practice meditation.

A good night is when I do all three in order :-)

[-] cRazi_man@europe.pub 11 points 3 weeks ago

Make up stories in my head.

This is super effective to help get to sleep. Just waking fantasies of being a superhero, or in a zombie apocalypse or being super rich. Any fictional narrative to keep the mind from wandering to racing thoughts or stresses. Gets me to sleep every time.

[-] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

All the most effective stuff you can do to get better sleep is done ahead of time (like daily exercise, not spending time in bed when not sleeping, keeping a sleep schedule, avoiding caffeine/alcohol etc), so if I get to that point there isn't that much to be done. Getting up and doing something nonstimulating other than lying in bed for ten minutes can help a little bit sometimes. If there's something in my sleep environment that is abnormal and it's possible to correct it that will help. Lowering the temperature can help.

[-] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 5 points 3 weeks ago

Fully agree, that part helped the most with improving falling asleep time and sleep quality.

More melatonin and breathing exercises i referenced in other comment are for those abnormal, one off occasions and usually the cause can be pointed back to some daily activity.

[-] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah, tbh I also take .5mg melatonin before bed regularly and add a valerian root tablet on top of that occasionally

[-] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 3 points 3 weeks ago

Same, 1,9mg of melatonin, but if any of the preparation during the day isn't on point. That melatonin does absolutely nothing. With the preparations It's providing a slight push to speed up falling asleep.

[-] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 15 points 3 weeks ago

I read many years ago that insomnia is a survival mechanism due to low calories.

I get up and have a light meal. Seems to work for me.

[-] KaRunChiy@fedia.io 9 points 3 weeks ago

I used to just do hobbies until physical exhaustion would force me to sleep.

Now i sleep 9 - 14 hours on the regular 🤷‍♀️ Don't fuck up your circadian rythm kids

[-] Libb@piefed.social 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

What I always do: read and/or write.

Night is often much quieter than the rest of the day, which makes it perfect for quiet activities like reading and writing. And in the early morning I can even stop reading/writing in order to listen birds singing which is even better... before the roaring motorized traffic cover their tiny voice for the rest of the day (yes, I do live in a busy city).

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[-] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 9 points 3 weeks ago

Take more melatonin and try boxed breathing exercises. Keep trying until i fall asleep or morning comes.

[-] mannycalavera@feddit.uk 4 points 3 weeks ago

Boxed breathing? Tell me more 😊.

[-] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 7 points 3 weeks ago

Just a variation of general breathing exercises.
Created to calm the body and nervous system down, generally used to help with anxiety, stress, insomnia.

  1. Breathing in while counting to 4(roughly 4 seconds).
  2. holding breath while slowly counting to 4.
  3. breathing out while counting to 4.
  4. waiting for 4 seconds before breathing in again.

https://www.webmd.com/balance/what-is-box-breathing

[-] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 weeks ago

I found putting a number of seconds on it made it much harder for me because I was concentrating so hard on breathing exactly x seconds. Just making it even and slow worked much better. YMMV

[-] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 3 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah completely fair, just slowing down and controlling breathing is good enough for me as well.

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[-] yakko@feddit.uk 2 points 3 weeks ago

You've heard of the sandman, right? Well, now you know why marital artists punch buckets of sand

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[-] fizzle@quokk.au 3 points 3 weeks ago

Melatonin just makes most people super drowsy during the day.

[-] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Most people do take it without any preparation and in too strong dosages. Basically using it as a high dose stand alone sleeping pill rather than a sleeping aid in conjunction with general sleep hygiene, which starts already during the day.

Like if i have to resort to the last method, i will be drowsy during the next day, but it's better than being completely sleep deprived.

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[-] nicgentile@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

My sister is a registered nurse, and she has a pro tip. Electric blanket. I wrap myself, and I am out like a light.

Also, I am a "sleeper" after r/Futurama_Sleepers when I was over there, so I just download episodes of my favourite tv shows, usually American Dad, Family Guy, Venture Brothers and what not, onto this old phone I have, and set the screen to the lowest brightness, sometimes the screen is off, and the volume low and I watch till I fall asleep. I have not made it past 20 minutes yet in the years I have done this.

[-] chillme@lemmy.zip 4 points 3 weeks ago

Electric blanket as in a heated blanket? How would that help you sleep? I sleep on a heated blanket but u only do that because otherwise the bed is too cold for me but I don’t feel the heat does anything to help me sleep.

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[-] albbi@piefed.ca 9 points 3 weeks ago

Listen to a audiobook for a book I've read before. I have a sleepy mask with headphones built in so I don't bother my partner.

[-] Chaunticleer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

make food, wrap up in soft blankets, talk to strangers on the internet. might as well at least be comfortable if I can't be unconscious

[-] Papanca@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago
[-] NABDad@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

Last in bed with my eyes closed for hours, then get up and go to work.

[-] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Not sleep. shrug Seriously, I've tried every trick in the book and a boatload of medication, even the medicine didn't work longterm.

Yay, crippling insomnia!

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[-] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 5 points 3 weeks ago

i scroll lemmy... yeah i should stop doing this

[-] winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 weeks ago

Smoke some weed

[-] chillme@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 weeks ago

I listen to calming sleep stories and try to lie still. That way even though I can’t sleep I try to let my body and mind rest as much as possible. Listening to calming sleep stories is entertaining enough that I don’t get frustrated by the lack of sleep and also calming enough that I feel like I’m resting.

[-] zxqwas@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

Usually just get up and go on with my day. Most of my work is flexible hours anyway.

[-] Kennystillalive@feddit.org 4 points 3 weeks ago

Stop browsing the internet, try and relax, go to my mental happy place and slowly drift into sleep.

[-] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 4 points 3 weeks ago

Depends on what I want to accomplish when I can't sleep.

If I don't have to be up early the next day and/or don't have anything terribly demanding the next day, I will embrace the insomnia to an extent. Play a game for a bit. Maybe go do some work on the computer. Empty the dishwasher. Just find useful things to do that will help make the next day(s) a bit lighter.

If I do have to get up, have a heavy day, or just would prefer to sleep, then I do fairly standard things. I'll go grab something to read (sans a screen). I'll find something relaxing to listen to (no videos, just audio). I'll try various visualization / relaxation / counting techniques.

And if all else fails, I'll just find some random movie to watch and sit/lay on the couch or in a recliner to veg out.

For me, not being able to sleep sucks, but lying down with my eyes closed and embracing my thoughts still leaves me feeling better the next day compared to getting up, moving around, etc.

[-] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

I start planning D&D ideas for campaigns or think about my character in the campaign I’m in is going to react in the next session.

Usually this works to put me to sleep pretty quickly.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

To fall asleep?

Think Sa on inhale and Ha on exhale can work, or I count backwards from 100 in Spanish, starting over when I forget where I am. Yin yoga is good too, forward folds calm the nervous system.

To do something else, when it seems sleep is not possible or desirable? Emotional stress? Get out of bed & go for a night walk, or even a run. Exercise. Get physically exhausted if possible.

[-] stringere@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago

If it's a song looping and keeping me awake: I picture myself rising up above the earth to the vacuum of space where there is no sound and drifting off in the silent void.

Otherwise the go to is picturing my mind and consciousness as a submarine on the surface of wakefulness and I let myself slowly sink beneath the waves of sleep.

[-] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 3 points 3 weeks ago

I have no idea. I'm an excellent sleeper.

[-] Sickday@kbin.earth 3 points 3 weeks ago

Gym these days. I'll do a 2.5km jog/run and then row for 2k and if I still have the good brain juice, 5k on the bike. That's usually enough to at least get me a fair bit tired.

[-] snoons@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 weeks ago

Ur looking at it.

If I don't have a book to read. Just finished Rendezvous with Rama which was sooo good.

[-] akunohana@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

Writhe

But also, Zipoclone.

[-] Cherry@piefed.social 3 points 3 weeks ago

Bully my brain

[-] DankDingleberry@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

take a pill

[-] Watermark710@piefed.social 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I head over to YouTube and put on videos of old NFL games. The announcers talking puts me to sleep.

[-] Crystalbound@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

I find a comfortable position, close my eyes, and let my mind drop me somewhere in my imagination.

Most often, its a frozen lake surrounded by evergreen trees with snow swirling. In this I'm usually skating along the ice at the pace of my breathing. The sound of my breathing in and out is like the sound of my skate making each push on the ice; the fan in my room feels like the cold wind on my face.

But it can be other places my mind goes and I find this incredibly peaceful. Before I know it, I've actually drifted off to sleep. I've been doing this for about two months and have begun to keep a journal on where my mind goes in these moments each night

[-] sturmblast@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

I smoke weed lol works for me

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[-] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 2 points 3 weeks ago

I read a book that's written in a foreign language. It keeps my brain somewhat busy, thus avoiding "circulating" thoughts and then soon I get tired again.

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