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I can't take away the eraser or give it to him only when he asks, because I have more students.

He's impulsive but nice. His parents know he does stuff like that.

Any ideas?

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[-] CMDR_Horn@lemmy.world 49 points 2 weeks ago

Talk to parents, get their written approval to put bitter apple spray on the erasers.

[-] sleen@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 week ago

Agreed, putting something repulsive is the key here. This kind of strategy is used for nail biters as well.

[-] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago

That only works for so long. My mom got special nail varnish from the doctors that was supposed to stop me chewing my nails. Properly vile rotten stuff.

I ended up developing a taste for it.

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[-] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

My mom used to threaten me with hot sauce, but I love hot sauce.

[-] howler@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago

Ooooooh very nice idea!!!!! Thank you!!!

[-] DebatableRaccoon@lemmy.ca 28 points 2 weeks ago

Something similar to the spray they use on animals after a surgery? It's safe for consumption but it tastes god-awful to stop the animal licking the wound.

[-] voracitude@lemmy.world 24 points 2 weeks ago

Sounds like it could be a stim thing - impulsive, you say? Any chance there's (undiagnosed?) ASD there? The mentions of bitter spray reminded me of when my mother tried that to get me to stop biting my nails. I just stopped using my lips and tongue, and only used my teeth...

Anyway, if it's a stimulation thing, maybe finding an alternative would be easier than getting him to stop entirely.

[-] TherapyGary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 week ago
[-] LavaPlanet@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

Yeah, this is exactly what I was thinking, too. You redirect the behavior somewhere safe while still fulfilling the essential need.

[-] howler@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago

I'll find something else too, then. I don't want to harm him

[-] voracitude@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'd be curious for a follow-up post if you find a way to help him with this! I was this kid when I was little, and needed help and kindness, but there was no understanding for autistic behaviours back then so what I got instead was bullied. I appreciate that you went looking for help instead of just throwing up your hands 🤗

[-] howler@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 days ago

Hi! So I suggested nail chewing deterrent to the boss, checked that the kids have no allergies, bought the deterrent in a pharmacy and coated all the pencils and part of one eraser (they stop working with the polish).

All it took was one lick (and OMG their faces), they didn't put the pencils/eraser near their mouth again. I hope they remember the lesson next week lol. I coated all pencils so the kid I wrote the post about wouldn't get targeted.

I watched the kid that has me particularly worried and he didn't show interest in putting anything else in his mouth, nor did he have a change in attitude. Now that he isn't licking stuff, he is somewhat more focused in class?? I have to keep watching.

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[-] remon@ani.social 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Some pharmacies sell a bitter liquid (no idea how it's called) intended to to put on children's fingernails to prevent nail baiting. I guess this would also work on erasers.

[-] blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 2 weeks ago

I had this, it was called Stop n Grow

I eventually got used to and, even liked the taste

[-] new_guy@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Yeah... I discovered I could file the upper layer of my nail to remove the polish. Guess how my nails ended up.

[-] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I had a bitterant put on my hands and now I just like bitter flavors lol

[-] ToffeeIsForClosers@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

Long shot but it could be a sign of iron deficiency. Eating, smelling and licking odd things like paper, erasers, I’ve heard of these associations. I even read about a woman who would spend her lunch hour smelling the concrete in the stairwell. Turned out to be iron deficiency.

[-] Baggie@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago

Chewing ice as well, supposedly it is motivated by iron deficiency.

[-] Lembot_0004@discuss.online 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Why do you want that? Is there some inobvious harm in chewing erasers? Or money is the main problem? Let him chew his own erasers then.

[-] starlinguk@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Other kids have to use them.

[-] Lembot_0004@discuss.online 3 points 1 week ago

Communal erasers? Are they extremely expensive in some countries?

[-] lovely_reader@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

If this is in the U.S., teachers typically have to buy their own supplies on meager salaries. Watching one kid literally eat those supplies must be pretty demoralizing.

[-] howler@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago

He's not chewing them. He's putting them in his mouth whole. I don't think he'll choke, but other people want to use the eraser too. Yes I paid for them myself, as someone else guessed in the other answers.

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[-] sefra1@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 week ago

Don't all children do that?

I used to shew on everything, my friend used to literally destroy pens by shewing them too much. I think it's normal.

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[-] IWW4@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 week ago

Don’t bother trying. It isn’t going to hurt the kid.

[-] BussyCat@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

It can easily be a chocking hazard, it’s unsanitary, and it can cause the child to be ostracized by peers which can limit their social development.

[-] CandleTiger@programming.dev 10 points 1 week ago

Is eating erasers going to get you more ostracized than constant nagging from the teacher to not eat erasers?

[-] BussyCat@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Personally still going to put the blame there on eraser eater, but the whole point of this post was to find something that actually works to curb the behavior

[-] lovely_reader@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

It doesn't sound like they're necessarily his erasers though

[-] howler@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago

They are not

[-] A_norny_mousse@feddit.org 9 points 2 weeks ago

If they are the school's I would simply not give them to that student anymore, for very obvious reasons that every 9yo should understand. Let him use his own.

Is the act itself disturbing the class or his own ability to concentrate? If not, I do not see any further problem.

Haven't we all chewed on pencils to concentrate?

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[-] Treczoks@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Well, there is stuff you paint on kids nails to prevent them from biting them, which basically tastes bitter. Maybe apply this to the eraser?

[-] AA5B@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago
[-] Fyrnyx@kbin.melroy.org 8 points 1 week ago

Roundhouse kick that kid to the moon.

[-] Zagam@piefed.social 7 points 1 week ago

Do like my ol' dad did make him smoke a whole pack. It'll put him off forever.

[-] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago

"you can put that eraser in your mouth as much as you want, but first you have to eat this pallet of erasers from the supply storage"

[-] Tedesche@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago
[-] Jhuskindle@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Did the parents take Tylenol? Equip him with erasers.

[-] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 3 points 2 weeks ago

If the parents don't support you, and you can eliminate the existence of mental issues that require treatment or special attention for chewie, and you can't use a spray solution, I would go for gentle peer pressure. Point it out in class, do a friendly dressing down how none of the other students want to use the chewed on eraser. If he won't stop if you say so, maybe you can get other kids to do the trick. The unwanted public attention from his peers might be enough. Would your principal be up for a bad cop routine where you can be the good cop?

[-] howler@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 days ago

Peer pressure would be a disaster. Kids are vicious creatures when they have the chance, and I know that several of his classmates are certified brats with a taste for blood.

[-] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 1 points 6 days ago

In summary: you have the cooperation of the parents, you cannot exclude the existence of a mental issues, and you are allowed to spray the item then. These are conditions I put ahead of any other suggestion.

[-] voracitude@lemmy.world 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I understand why you'd go there when it sounds like other options have been exhausted, but I don't think it would be a good idea. Seems like calling the kid out like this would only open up opportunities for bullying, without doing anything to address the source of the issue.

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[-] remon@ani.social 7 points 2 weeks ago

Point it out in class, do a friendly dressing down how none of the other students want to use the chewed on eraser.

Seems like a great way to get your own private eraser!

[-] blargh513@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

They sell stuff called Chewelry; it's a necklace or wristband you can chomp on.

Maybe get the kid one of those? If not, maybe make one out of a piece of string and eraser?

This one's for chewin', this one's for undoin'.

[-] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 5 points 1 week ago

This is something the parents should do - along being in the driver's seat of correcting this behavior in their 9yo. In times of teachers crowd funding classroom supplies, I don't think it's fair to suggest "throw money at it" to a teacher. It's not going to cost $5 just once and that's it. If you have to beg for boardmarkers in general, this will be a line item that matters.

[-] howler@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 days ago

Talked to the parents because this kid is known for doing weird/illogical stuff. They say that they know that something is not right and that they are trying to figure out what it is.

So till we know if the student has an issue or of he's simply the Herald of Chaos, I will keep coating the pencils with bitter stuff.

Also, yes I have to beg for board markers and all the materials in my class have been paid by me, and I'd like them to last.

[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

Cover them in spicy

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