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I have been with mine for 2 years <33 My beloved.

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[-] bunkyprewster@startrek.website 11 points 4 weeks ago

First date Feb 7, 1987

[-] TherapyGary 8 points 4 weeks ago

Partnered for 8yrs 4mo
lived together 8yrs 9mo
known each other 8yrs 10mo

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 8 points 4 weeks ago

Met in 1984. Engaged around 1986. Various hardships ensued. Purchased house together in 2000. Married in 2004. Kid in 2009.

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 6 points 4 weeks ago

if I'm reading this right, you hooked up with your roommate? That's a bold strategy, Cotton.

[-] TherapyGary 6 points 4 weeks ago

Yep! My best friend's sister, too ๐Ÿ˜…

[-] SourGrapez@piefed.social 7 points 4 weeks ago
[-] olivergarden@piefed.social 6 points 4 weeks ago
[-] 0_0j@lemmy.world 3 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Shit. Y'all too sweet to be real

[-] geekwithsoul@piefed.social 6 points 4 weeks ago

32 years ๐Ÿ‘ด๐Ÿป

[-] Zagam@piefed.social 6 points 4 weeks ago

Together for 22 years, married for 15.

[-] spongebue@lemmy.world 3 points 4 weeks ago

I was going to say that's a long time, then I realized I'm not too far behind! 18/13 for us.

[-] Zagam@piefed.social 2 points 4 weeks ago

Shit goes fast yo. Like Tom Waits says- Fall in love and get married then boom; How the hell did I get here so soon?

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 6 points 4 weeks ago

April 29, 2009

We met two days before. Three months later we were engaged, a year after that we were married. No regrets.

[-] Fondots@lemmy.world 6 points 4 weeks ago

Coming up on 7 years married, probably about another 2 maybe 3 years together (she seems to think we were dating for a while before I realized it, I'm kind of dense)

We were friends for probably about another 2 or 3 years before that, and for probably about that long again before that we kind of recognized each other as friends-of-friends but only ever bumped into each other in-passing and didn't hang out.

[-] MxRemy@piefed.social 6 points 4 weeks ago

One partner 8 years, the other 4. Still just as deeply in as love!

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 6 points 4 weeks ago

19ยฝ years

[-] cute_noker@feddit.dk 5 points 4 weeks ago

7 years. Time flies..

[-] just_ducky_in_NH@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

41 years. We got engaged two months after we met, married five months after engagement, and are still going strong!

[-] juliebean@lemmy.zip 5 points 4 weeks ago

i envy ya'll with concrete dates. my partner and i have been together somewhere around 10 years. we've been talking off and on about getting officially married, partly to have a precise anniversary lol

[-] thevoidzero@lemmy.world 5 points 4 weeks ago

You can just choose a day and go with it. As long as both of you agree, and it's approximate it's fine. We just count earth going around the sun, it's divided arbitrarily, and Earth's never going to be in exact place anyway.

[-] dubyakay@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 weeks ago

Before we got married I figured this out via contextual chat logs and pictures.

[-] FlembleFabber@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 weeks ago

1 week now, lol

Together for a little over 9 years, married for about a year! ๐Ÿ˜

[-] HubertManne@piefed.social 5 points 3 weeks ago

Bit over 25 years.

[-] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 5 points 4 weeks ago

together for 4 days I think??

[-] AlternateRoute@lemmy.ca 4 points 4 weeks ago

25 years, or at least by the date we sort of agree on the first year is a little fuzzy lol.

[-] klemptor@startrek.website 4 points 3 weeks ago

It'll be 25 years this week!

[-] Truffle@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 weeks ago

20 years together, fourteen of them married.

[-] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 4 points 4 weeks ago

We've been married eleven years, but together for about twenty three. He's still putting up with me, it's wild!

[-] Vinny_93@lemmy.world 3 points 4 weeks ago

11 years, married for 2.5

[-] WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 3 points 4 weeks ago

Together for 16, married for 11 or 12

[-] Botzo@lemmy.world 3 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Our first official date was opening night for the Nic Cage movie The Family Man. Married 3.5 years later.

[-] BananaPeal@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 weeks ago

We're hitting 10 years married this October! 11 years together.

[-] NotSteve_@piefed.ca 3 points 4 weeks ago

10 years since June and getting married this coming September 27th

[-] Awa@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

27 years together, 24 married

[-] sunbeam60@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 weeks ago

Coming up to 20 years, 17 years married.

[-] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 weeks ago

Holy shit y'all make my relationship feel young. 5.75 yrs

[-] PetteriPano@lemmy.world 2 points 4 weeks ago

13 years. Married for 6.

First two years were mostly long-distance.

[-] DaniNatrix@leminal.space 2 points 3 weeks ago

5 years! We're not really sure of the exact date cause ADHDยฒ lol we go with October cause shopping for Halloween decorations was our first date ๐ŸŽƒ

[-] martijndevrieze@europe.pub 2 points 4 weeks ago

22 years, been married for ~18 by now... Married twice, to the same woman, first time for the paperwork (that was called a Registered partnership, legally the same as marriage, with a slight difference in the type of "contract"), second time (actual marriage) for the party. Second wedding was 15 years ago

[-] AmourDeFrance@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago
[-] Saprophyte@lemmy.world 2 points 4 weeks ago

15 years together, married 13 next month.

[-] Laukatt@piefed.social 2 points 4 weeks ago

11 years ๐Ÿฅฐ we are both 29 years old

[-] ghost_towels@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 weeks ago

20 years this Christmas, married for 15. Still my favourite person to putter around with.

[-] newbeni@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

29 years together, 26 married

[-] Core_of_Arden@lemmy.ml 1 points 4 weeks ago

Why? That's not really relevant for anything... I've had multiple relations and I love most of them. A few hurt me, most healed me, and most were very passionate. The one I'm currently entertaining is perfect for me.

[-] Yeahigotskills2@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 weeks ago

15 years, married for 13.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Bout 6 or so years.

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