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I have been with mine for 2 years <33 My beloved.

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[-] Laukatt@piefed.social 1 points 53 minutes ago

11 years ๐Ÿฅฐ we are both 29 years old

[-] Saprophyte@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

15 years together, married 13 next month.

[-] BananaPeal@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago

We're hitting 10 years married this October! 11 years together.

[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 1 points 2 hours ago

A year and a half, a year, and a month, in order of duration :3

[-] juliebean@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 hours ago

i envy ya'll with concrete dates. my partner and i have been together somewhere around 10 years. we've been talking off and on about getting officially married, partly to have a precise anniversary lol

[-] thevoidzero@lemmy.world 1 points 9 minutes ago

You can just choose a day and go with it. As long as both of you agree, and it's approximate it's fine. We just count earth going around the sun, it's divided arbitrarily, and Earth's never going to be in exact place anyway.

[-] Vinny_93@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

11 years, married for 2.5

[-] bunkyprewster@startrek.website 6 points 7 hours ago

First date Feb 7, 1987

[-] cute_noker@feddit.dk 3 points 6 hours ago

7 years. Time flies..

[-] MxRemy@piefed.social 4 points 7 hours ago

One partner 8 years, the other 4. Still just as deeply in as love!

[-] FlembleFabber@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago

1 week now, lol

[-] Core_of_Arden@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 hours ago

Why? That's not really relevant for anything... I've had multiple relations and I love most of them. A few hurt me, most healed me, and most were very passionate. The one I'm currently entertaining is perfect for me.

[-] martijndevrieze@europe.pub 1 points 6 hours ago

22 years, been married for ~18 by now... Married twice, to the same woman, first time for the paperwork (that was called a Registered partnership, legally the same as marriage, with a slight difference in the type of "contract"), second time (actual marriage) for the party. Second wedding was 15 years ago

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 4 points 8 hours ago

April 29, 2009

We met two days before. Three months later we were engaged, a year after that we were married. No regrets.

[-] Botzo@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Our first official date was opening night for the Nic Cage movie The Family Man. Married 3.5 years later.

[-] PetteriPano@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

13 years. Married for 6.

First two years were mostly long-distance.

[-] ghost_towels@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 hours ago

20 years this Christmas, married for 15. Still my favourite person to putter around with.

[-] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 hours ago

Holy shit y'all make my relationship feel young. 5.75 yrs

[-] AlternateRoute@lemmy.ca 3 points 9 hours ago

25 years, or at least by the date we sort of agree on the first year is a little fuzzy lol.

[-] mateofeo85@lemmy.world 7 points 11 hours ago

Together for 12 years, married for 6 years.

[-] fossman2112@lemmy.ml 1 points 7 hours ago

Started dating right after 9/11, not married until 2014. Still together.

[-] Fondots@lemmy.world 5 points 10 hours ago

Coming up on 7 years married, probably about another 2 maybe 3 years together (she seems to think we were dating for a while before I realized it, I'm kind of dense)

We were friends for probably about another 2 or 3 years before that, and for probably about that long again before that we kind of recognized each other as friends-of-friends but only ever bumped into each other in-passing and didn't hang out.

[-] SourGrapez@piefed.social 4 points 10 hours ago
[-] olivergarden@piefed.social 3 points 10 hours ago
[-] 0_0j@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Shit. Y'all too sweet to be real

[-] TherapyGary 7 points 11 hours ago

Partnered for 8yrs 4mo
lived together 8yrs 9mo
known each other 8yrs 10mo

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 4 points 8 hours ago

if I'm reading this right, you hooked up with your roommate? That's a bold strategy, Cotton.

[-] TherapyGary 3 points 8 hours ago

Yep! My best friend's sister, too ๐Ÿ˜…

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 7 points 11 hours ago

Met in 1984. Engaged around 1986. Various hardships ensued. Purchased house together in 2000. Married in 2004. Kid in 2009.

[-] Zagam@piefed.social 4 points 10 hours ago

Together for 22 years, married for 15.

[-] spongebue@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

I was going to say that's a long time, then I realized I'm not too far behind! 18/13 for us.

[-] geekwithsoul@piefed.social 4 points 10 hours ago

32 years ๐Ÿ‘ด๐Ÿป

[-] WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

Together for 16, married for 11 or 12

Together for a little over 9 years, married for about a year! ๐Ÿ˜

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago

19ยฝ years

[-] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 4 points 11 hours ago

together for 4 days I think??

[-] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 3 points 10 hours ago

We've been married eleven years, but together for about twenty three. He's still putting up with me, it's wild!

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