I never really went clothes shopping when I was man, and so transitionimg has been doubly hard in the clothing department because I have no idea what I like or what would look good. Sizing diificulties are the cherry on top. Generally I go a size up, but sometimes it's the same and sometimes I have to go two sizes up and that only works when it's a normal s/m/l/xl sizing scheme.
I religiously stick to Freya bras cos a 30E always fits me. I also stick to the same 4 clothing stores cos it's infuriating having to buy 300 items to send 299 back! It's also depressing AF.
Are the Freya plunges actually a cup size too big? People on ABTF said it runs large but since the Freya offbeat had these weird wide wires on me I haven't tried them again. Even trying the half-cups seems daunting since some women said they were still too big??? But yeah, I hate bra sizing. At least it should be more descriptive beyond just a cup and band size.
I don't think so although tbf I've not been measured in years so it's entirely possible! They're well made bras and they fit
This isn’t limited to women’s or even just clothes. Had to explain to my daughter why one pair of boots is a full size smaller despite fitting just as well.
We’ve got US and European standard sizes listed on the box and I guess they are supposed to be a suggestion
Ewa Michalak all day every day for me. I found what works and I am sticking to it. New bra day never fails to be "magic shoulder pain melt away" day, too.
One day I complained to my guy friend about not finding normal shorts that fit and cover my underwear. He didn't believe me, so we went on a mission. After three hours in the mall, we left empty handed, him shaking his head going "I had no idea it was that bad."
Now I just make my own from pants. Oh, and icebreaker for bras. I don't buy anything else.
It isn't even necessarily consistent within brands. It is infuriating at times, and makes shopping online less practical than it should be.
I'm also a Panache girly. 34GG. Sadly they're pretty much impossible to get in Germany.
Panache is the best ❤️ I have to buy them online and don't always get the color I want but it is progress and a lifesaver right now.
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