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[-] CharlesDarwin@lemmy.world 102 points 1 month ago

Holy shit, the unhinged right are masters of making themselves out to be the real victims. What fucking chodes they are.

[-] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 50 points 1 month ago

Crybullying is a tactic we let work far too often.

[-] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 month ago

I dealt with them enough people that my response to crybulling is to laugh in their face and dare them to throw a punch. Which is surprisingly effective when you are a five five dude who pulls off the wildman look quite well.

[-] paraphrand@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

~~lol I read cyber bullying, whoops~~

[-] WizardofFrobozz@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 month ago

And the “left” is sitting back and allowing their country to be steamrolled by these fucking chodes. It’s embarrassing, really.

[-] devolution@lemmy.world 73 points 1 month ago

Oh my god receiving consequences for being a shit head violates my 1st amendment rights!!!

Fuck them.

[-] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 50 points 1 month ago

Everyone else surprised that a school district would take any action at all against any bully, let alone one bullying a trans student.

[-] Fedizen@lemmy.world 45 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

This has gone too far. Conservative media has just become purposeless cruelty. Bullying in any form shouldn't be allowed in school. Its obviously not only inhumane to allow that shit but its a liability for schools.

[-] tehn00bi@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

When was it not? Rush was pretty mean back in the day.

[-] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Nobody in either of my kids schools get bullied. It hasn't been an issue for 20 years. It doesn't take a lot of effort either. Kids just don't see the point, they have better things to do.

If you make an effort you can shut that shit down.

Edit: lol Lemmy quit being reddit. Downvoting this is sad! Seriously the kids don't bully each other, they have been taught to help each other, and tolerate each other. That's the effort.

So downvoting this is like saying: but we like bullying!

The world could be better, but people will downvote that idea.

[-] TempermentalAnomaly@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

No. Down voting is disagreeing with bullying hasn't been a thing for 20 years. Many people here have been bullied in the last twenty years. Heck, at my kid's school there was a bullying incident that caused quite a stir a couple of years ago. Unfortunately, the district no longer has any tools to deal with it if the restorative justice model doesn't bring all the parties to the table. The parents, from what I hear, said it was a boys will be boys thing. And I know of at least one person who withdrew their child in no small part due to this.

So I agree that bullying is probably way down from when I was a kid, but to say it isn't a thing because you have no awareness of it is a little self centered.

[-] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I am not saying it doesn't exist, I don't want to imply that.

What I was trying to say, is it doesn't have to. Maybe I should have made that more clear. The schools my kids went to made it a priority to make it go away, and they succeeded. They did what you do with all kids, you move their attention and reward the good behaviors. They have a large age difference so this spans many years.

It is so depressing that other schools throw up their hands and just say kids will be kids. My whole point wasn't to say it doesn't happen, but that it CAN be better.

[-] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Nobody in either of my kids schools get bullied. It hasn’t been an issue for 20 years.

Maybe your kids went to a unicorn of a school, but most schools have some sort of bullying problem, whether it's about queer issues, race, economic status or even just an ordinary name. If the school allows it, bullies will exist and find something, anything to bully passive kids over.

[-] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago

I agree. I am just saying it does not have to be that way.

[-] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

That's not how you worded it. You sound like you think bullying only started recently with trans students.

[-] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

Lol what? I never mentioned trans students at all.

[-] BananaIsABerry@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 month ago

Spoken like every school admin and parent turning a build eye to bullying right in front their faces ever.

[-] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago

No. The opposite of that.

The schools make a safe place to go to school part of the curriculum. They do not turn a blind eye. They also don't threaten punishment, but encourage inclusiveness. Of course that is WOKE now so most other schools are going to ramp up the bullying.

I talked to my kids and their friends many times over the years, and was surprised because it is so different than what I had.

They just don't even see the point in harassing anyone, it has no value to them, and they never get harassed either.

[-] piecat@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

And then everyone started clapping

More likely your kids and their friends were the bullies. That's why you never heard about it lol

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[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 points 1 month ago

Good for your kids I guess. That experience is not universal. My nephew has had repeated issues with it.

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[-] Deflated0ne@lemmy.world 39 points 1 month ago

They get triggered if the wind blows the wrong direction. Fuck em.

[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world 37 points 1 month ago

As usual, the cruelty is the point!

[-] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 36 points 1 month ago

School bullies are tolerated for the same reason police tolerate the proud boys. The Christian agenda is to raise their kids to be Christian Soldiers terrorizing Queer kids and we're apparently supposed to go along with letting it happen. Fuck that.

[-] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 22 points 1 month ago

Looks like it's been misreported as one male saying in the locker room "there's a girl in here" and others saying they felt uncomfortable with a girl there. The school say there's more to it than media covered. Suspending a group for 10 days for expressing discomfort wouldn't be valid, but obviously that's not what happened

[-] HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com 10 points 1 month ago

Of course they are because cruelty is the point.

[-] MourningDove@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 month ago

Frankly, I’m surprised this even happened. I couldn’t care less about how this makes MAGA feel. I’m just glad the kids were seen and those that could- did something to protect them.

[-] Taleya@aussie.zone 4 points 1 month ago

I'm surprised they even noticed, trans men don't tend to exist to these bigots

[-] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 3 points 1 month ago

They were going to cause a problem no matter what the outcome was. Ignore.

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