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[-] hildegarde 19 points 4 days ago

There is a car behind me, I'm going to drive a little circle around the block to make sure.

[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 9 points 4 days ago

Ugh. A classmate in university thought it was "fun" to get in his car, go out driving, pick a random car, and then just follow them around until they parked before driving away. A predator in the making, that one was.

unhinged, getting a thrill from that

[-] decipher_jeanne 12 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

At a bar or in the street:

I don't want to flirt back, but I am afraid he'll just keep getting more pushy or forceful. Anyone around can play diversion please?

[-] dandelion 13 points 4 days ago

I feel this, it feels dangerous to make a man upset or angry, or even disappointed - so you try to be super nice and polite, but then he just misreads your politeness as interest.

[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 5 points 4 days ago

Because "no" is not in the vocabulary of so many men it's honestly a bit terrifying.

[-] infinitevalence@discuss.online 9 points 4 days ago

I'm only following you home so I know you are safe and don't have a stalker.

[-] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 12 points 4 days ago

Hey infinite! Thanks for swinging by. We are trans inclusive women only so please don't comment again and have a good evening 🥰

[-] infinitevalence@discuss.online 7 points 4 days ago

My apologies I did not notice the server or community.

But I definitely want to be inclusive of all people!

[-] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 7 points 4 days ago

It's fine I'm sure we'll say hi in other communities instead. All the best ❤️

[-] Lyra_Lycan 1 points 4 days ago

What did you possibly say to trigger OP?

[-] infinitevalence@discuss.online 12 points 4 days ago

I dont think it has anything to do with the content, but my lack of reading the sidebar and rules. This is supposed to be a safe space for women & trans, as a CIS man I accidentally "invaded" this space. Its all about respect, and perfectly justified IMO.

this post was submitted on 19 Aug 2025
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