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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by IcedRaktajino@startrek.website to c/fedimemes@feddit.uk

Yes, I'm aware I can curse on the internet - it's not my first day here. I use the exact words I mean to use, and I'm more a fan of the precision F-strike than indiscriminately carpet-bombing the place with "fucks". Stop word-policing me (and others).

Edited to add alt text.

Yeah, this went over about as well as expected. And the irony and hypocrisy of the free speech absolutists coming out of the woodwork to tell us all what we can and can't say is not lost on me.

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[-] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 88 points 2 months ago

Fuck that self-censorship bullshit.

You can use expletives, or you can use words that aren't expletives to express what you want to say. Both are valid choices.

Using bowdlerized versions of expletives like a child trying to get away with "naughty" words or a YouTuber/TikToker trying to prevent being demonetized, though? That's unnecessary to the point of obnoxiousness in an uncensored environment like Lemmy.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

That's fine and all, but sometimes it's funny to use good place style censorship, sometimes people want to keep their language appropriate for cleaner circumstances as they struggle with code switching, and sometimes people want to repost something they saw online without uncensoring it.

Personally I don't give a flying fuck, a hot damn, a fucking shit, or whatever other expletive one prefers to express indifference and I do hate the rise of advertiser friendly censorship, but also I don't know if I'm more tired of the complaints about it and complaints about the word "slams" in news headlines, but both are about as certain as finding "first" in a 2010 comments section.

[-] lowleekun@ani.social 17 points 2 months ago

If one wants to keep their cirumstances clean they can chose to not use the word fuck in any way at all. And if you are tired about people protesting censorship your future is gonna be really annoying.

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[-] Speculater@lemmy.world 84 points 2 months ago

It feels infantile and childish to me when grown ass adults use cutie wootie wordy cursies to get around speaking like humans.

[-] rigatti@lemmy.world 25 points 2 months ago

I guess I understand doing it around children, but I also think children swearing is hilarious, so...

[-] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 2 months ago

Yeah, there's nothing quite like the look on the face of a staunchly conservative bigot who's just been called a racist cunt by a based 8yo kid 😄

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[-] NuXCOM_90Percent@lemmy.zip 62 points 2 months ago

You're more than welcome to say fork or frell or frack or feth or whatever you want. I LOVE a good "forking shirtballs"

Just understand that if you start typing "f*ck" then people, self included, will assume you are a moron who thinks this is tiktok and you need to keep all your content monetized. Well, some of us are olds and will think you are a moron who doesn't realize that gets you extra banned on gamefaqs. But most people will assume the tiktok and monetization thing.

[-] bdot@lemmy.world 24 points 2 months ago

i have had it with these monkey-fighting snakes, on this Monday to Friday plane!!!

[-] ech@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 months ago

"You see what happens when you find a stranger in the Alps!"

[-] DmMacniel@feddit.org 9 points 2 months ago
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[-] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 44 points 2 months ago

No, fuck that.

Either stop self-censoring or don't structure your comments and sentences to use the word. This half-assed censoring is the lazy coward's way out

[-] BigBananaDealer@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago
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[-] thelasttoot@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago

Don't self-censor the way you want to! Self-censor the way I tell you to!

[-] pupbiru@aussie.zone 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

imo dont self-censor at all… either swear or don’t, but don’t “ohhh can’t say the naughty words”

do what you want, but it’s fucking annoying to read

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[-] Klear@lemmy.world 34 points 2 months ago
[-] angrystego@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago
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[-] Mac@mander.xyz 33 points 2 months ago

Our problem is not with the way people want to say things—its the necessity to do so due to censorship by corporations in an effort to cleanse everything for advertisers.

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[-] cm0002@piefed.world 33 points 2 months ago

Ok yea I'm sometimes guilty of this, but in a more joking kinda way usually

Except when you're posting someone else's content that the creator clearly intended to have a cussword, e.g. a comic, and either you or where you got it from censored it for "the algorithm". That shit is annoying AF

[-] Xtallll 29 points 2 months ago

The fucking problem with fucking self censorship, is it fucking often comes from people fucking compling with fucking corporate media fucking algorithmic censorship. Then internalizing the fucking limits of online spaces, it's a fucking sinister infiltration of the human fucking mind, and is driving a fucking shift to the fucking alt-right. Also you can say fuck on the Internet.

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[-] theneverfox@pawb.social 28 points 2 months ago

I think it kinda sucks, because I hate self censorship and the mechanisms that lead it it

If you want to do it for religious or moral reasons, I don't really care. You do you. I just don't want you censoring yourself for ad friendliness

[-] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 24 points 2 months ago
[-] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

People should be allowed to do what’s in their comfort zone without fear of reprisal. But I’m still going to believe you’re a child if you can’t even curse in writing

[-] ech@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 months ago

Way to undercut your own message.

[-] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 months ago

The juxtaposition allowed my point to be made more strikingly, in my opinion

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[-] TempermentalAnomaly@lemmy.world 23 points 2 months ago

As soon as some does it, every comment's like a three year old yelling, "You don't like curse words. Here's all the curse words I know!"

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[-] LiveLM@lemmy.zip 22 points 2 months ago

I don't care if people censor their swears, my problem is the word substitutions making whatever they're saying nigh unreadable like "Unalive", "grape", "PDF file".

[-] 13igTyme@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

PDF file?

Edit: oh wait. I had to say it out loud. Pedophile.

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[-] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 21 points 2 months ago

Lots of people don't like to swear in person, or will follow it with something like 'oops, did I say that out loud'.

I've never understood being upset when people self-censor online too. How does someone else not swearing effect you?

[-] Klear@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I don't care about people "not swearing".

Writing f*ck is swearing, just extra stupid.

[-] SpoonyBard@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It doesn’t affect me. That being said “policing” is a hyperbole. Obviously no one is forcing people to swear, they are just giving them shit when they censor themselves. Those people can still choose to censor themselves even when someone tells them it’s ok to swear.

It’s no more policing than OP ‘policing’ people to not ‘police’ him.

People have opinions. You can’t request others to not have their opinions if you’re going to share yours.

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[-] flamingos@feddit.uk 18 points 2 months ago

Real ones say removed (you tried to say bitch on .ml)

[-] Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world 18 points 2 months ago

Won't anybody think of the poor religious fundamentalists trying to impose their stunted world view and twisted values on the majority? It's those people that are responsible for much of the censorship we're facing today.

[-] Stanley_Pain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 2 months ago

On one hand I don't care. On the other hand I also laugh when someone censors something like b*tt...

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[-] Deceptichum@quokk.au 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

The real problem is people feeling the need to self-censor such things at all.

What sort of oppressive failure of a culture raises such values on a person.

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[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 16 points 2 months ago

Lol the people in these comments who feel like someone choosing to use censored swearing is some kind of commentary on their intelligence or mental age. Fucking unreal. Y'all are no better than any other kind of "cringe police".

[-] sexy_peach@feddit.org 14 points 2 months ago

Shit you're right. I still hate it though

[-] don@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago

I don’t give a fat fink if a person doesn’t wish to use adult language, but I inherently object to it being censored being normalized on the internet. I’m old enough to remember being excited when I got to upgrade from 14.4 to 28.8, and still others remember 300 baud.

I know you’re aware you can curse on the web, I just object to it in ways other than politely asking you not to censor your posts especially when the curse word is ordinarily spelled there, but scribbled over, like TikTok content brought over here.

I’m not about to water start wrd-plcng nyne, but I am going to prtst if I see what looks to be an attempt to normalize cnsrshp on lmm*.

***** ********* **** *******. ~(these asterisks mean nothing)~

[-] s@piefed.world 13 points 2 months ago

You can speak in goo-goo ga-ga talk but I’ll interpret that active choice of lingo as coming from the mind of an infant

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[-] pixeltree 12 points 2 months ago

Ay yes lets let corporations rule all of us wven further by proxy. How dare we swear on a medium that could be reuploaded to their platform

[-] JandroDelSol@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago

I dunno, I think it's a little childish to censor swear words instead of finding a replacement or just saying the swear, but it's not that big a deal.

what's worse is people saying r*pe or rap3 instead of rape, or "sui" or "unalive" instead of suicide. people shouldn't have to figure out how every Homestuck character would say a word if they wanna block content including these things.

[-] vxx@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago

I don't care either way, it's all part of online forums. People say something, others agree or disagree.

What I really dislike are Youtube channels having to censor themselves while reading court documents and such, in fear of getting their channel striked or demonetised.

[-] lemmyknow@lemmy.today 10 points 2 months ago

You can say f*ck on the internet

[-] missingno@fedia.io 10 points 2 months ago

If you want to avoid profanity, then simply don't use it at all rather than doing whatever this is. This is just tacky.

[-] Nico_198X@europe.pub 9 points 2 months ago

holy forking shirt-balls! you're right!

[-] wewbull@feddit.uk 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Wholly mother-forking shirt balls!

Language conveys meaning. The words have no other purpose. Say fudge, fork, or frak, you still conveyed fuck. So just say what you mean.

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[-] AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 months ago

Stop response-policing us

[-] carotte 8 points 2 months ago

the only thing more annoying than someone self-censoring are the billion people telling them to stop self-censoring

like we get it, we don’t need 20000 replies saying the same thing!!!!!!!!

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 8 points 2 months ago

Next you'll tell me to stop criticizing people's outfits and arguing about the borders of the Midwest. It's not gonna happen.

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