That would work both ways.. LadyButterfly gets a warning she is about to run into Frostbeard and thinks "Hell no!" and immediately makes a hard U-turn.

From the other side Frostbears gets a notification that he is about to run into LadyButterfly..and she never shows up.. The ping fading away. He knows then in his heart she is actively avoiding him...

Depending on what high school I was from, a lot of former classmates in my first high school wouldn’t even recognize me since both my name and gender presentation are much different now.

I had to transfer partway into my high school years because the school admins had serious safety concerns for when I leave the property (it was mostly filled with aspiring gangstas, extreme homophobes and few decent people in the mix). Least to say, I was harassed and bullied over my behaviour pre-transition.

I would just be like: "... Dude I've never met you before, don't wanna accuse you of being racist, but are you sure you aren't confusing some other Asian dude with me? 🧐"

Like idgaf, I'm gonna make people uncomfortable if they put me in that situation.

I had someone walk in to my work one day and call my name. I turned and greeted the customer and asked what I could do for them. They confirmed my name again, which they had correct, and then said "you went to XHS right?" Confirmed my graduation year even. "Uh, yeah... That's right?" I said with a confused look on my face.

I just stood there befuddled. I stared at this dudes face for seemingly an eternity. No recognition. I couldn't figure it out. For some reason, he didn't say his name and I was so flabbergasted that someone who lived 4 states away, that I apparently went to school with, happened to be on vacation in MY town and walked into MY store... that I didn't even ask. I was super busy, and suddenly confronted with utter confusion, just frozen. And this dude's just like, "well, see ya" and I have NO FUCKING CLUE WHO HE WAS. It's an interaction that haunts me still.

"Warning!! A 30 minute sales pitch for a pyramid scheme is approaching from the northwest."

I think all of my highschool class has that app, because I live in a small town and the only one I've seen in the past 15 years is because he's now our veterinarian.

Jokes on you, I live in a different country now, they can't find me here.

Although I must admit that the few times I came back to my home town to visit, it was a karmic satisfaction to see how my bullies now live the live they deserve.

theres a total of three people from high school that recognize me anymore so im good

An easy solution is to just avoid bars or places that serve alcohol.