There's quite a few different forms of aromantic and asexual identities. All of them have a lack of sexual or romantic desire on some level. Cupioromantic is someone who desires a romantic relationship but doesn't experience romantic feelings. A demiromantic only experiences romantic attraction after forming an emotional bond.

Trying to define "romantic feelings" is kind of difficult, because it differs for everyone. I would probably say you have an aversion to sexual intimacy, and that can include deep kissing.

Here's list I stole off the internet of types of love. It might help you narrow down your feelings

7 Types of Love

• Friendship: Intimacy without passion or commitment

• Infatuation: Passion without intimacy or commitment

• Empty love: Commitment without passion or intimacy

• Romantic love: Passion and intimacy without commitment

• Companionate love: Intimacy and commitment without passion/sexual desire; this could also be called "platonic" love

• Fatuous love: Commitment and passion without intimacy

• Consummate love: Commitment, passion, and intimacy

Hard to give substantial advice when it's not a lot of information you gave. I'm not saying you should give more, better keep it safe online.

Generally I think it's a good idea to not try to hard to put a label on yourself. In the end it's not that important if you're ace or something else but that you're comfortable with yourself.

Also, I think keeping your gf in the loop regarding your wants, needs ad feelings towards her is pretty important. Communication is key.

I'm similar. I would get into it every so often, but it usually just felt like a chore.

I would say let her know how you feel and if it doesn't work out, just try to find someone who feels the same.

i tend to feel similar